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cockerpunk 10-25-2024 07:20 AM

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Originally Posted by john70t (Post 12345597)
Against men? Agreed.

Now where shall we start...laws..courts..media..

no, against women.

im sorry that equality feels like oppression, it isnt. stop listen to men who claim to victims, and can't take responsibility for themselves or their feelings, and it will all sort itself out. :) the world isnt coddling men anymore, and we are better for it.

speeder 10-25-2024 02:43 PM

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Originally Posted by cockerpunk (Post 12345752)
no, against women.

im sorry that equality feels like oppression, it isnt. stop listen to men who claim to victims, and can't take responsibility for themselves or their feelings, and it will all sort itself out. :) the world isnt coddling men anymore, and we are better for it.

Do you think that women appreciate your tireless advocacy? I'm thinking that they take one look at you and go, "thanks but we've got this." :cool:

Rodsrsr 10-25-2024 03:36 PM

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Originally Posted by speeder (Post 12346041)
Do you think that women appreciate your tireless advocacy? I'm thinking that they take one look at you and go, "thanks but we've got this." :cool:

LMAO Agreed....He's the poster boy for being a "White Knight, Captain save-a-hoe, whatever you want to call it....I don't think he got the memo that women are actually repulsed by feminine men. Now please stop quoting him. I have him on ignore so I don't have to see his useless rants!

fastfredracing 10-25-2024 06:38 PM

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Targa68 10-26-2024 05:53 AM

http://forums.pelicanparts.com/support/smileys/wat3.gif

flatbutt 10-26-2024 06:34 AM

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Originally Posted by fastfredracing (Post 12346193)
<iframe width="560" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/-DAc-VtLiD0?si=rd1om5CSC1J5DsL4" title="YouTube video player" frameborder="0" allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share" referrerpolicy="strict-origin-when-cross-origin" allowfullscreen></iframe>

And that my friend is how a comedic great deals with a heckler!

cockerpunk 10-28-2024 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by speeder (Post 12346041)
Do you think that women appreciate your tireless advocacy? I'm thinking that they take one look at you and go, "thanks but we've got this." :cool:

i don't advocate for women, i advocate for men taking responsibility for there own actions, thoughts, and feelings.

if you can't tell the difference, then you probably need to examine your own thoughts and feelings as to why that is.

there is only one persons actions, thoughts and feelings we can change, and thats our own.

fastfredracing 10-28-2024 12:28 PM

Just to clarify Mr Punk. That video was for fun only . Even if your perspective on things seems slightly whack to me , I like and respect you .
I was hesitant to hit post, but Ill do anything in the name of fun, or for a Klondike .

cockerpunk 10-28-2024 12:54 PM

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Originally Posted by fastfredracing (Post 12347733)
Just to clarify Mr Punk. That video was for fun only . Even if your perspective on things seems slightly whack to me , I like and respect you .
I was hesitant to hit post, but Ill do anything in the name of fun, or for a Klondike .

i was not offended. i think bill burr is pretty funny.

i was responding to the accusation that somehow a post of mine telling men to stop listening to men who can't handle their own emotions and can't take responsibility for there own actions, is likely leading them to not handle there own emotions, and not being able to take responsibility for there own emotions, was somehow ....

about defending women.

which is, of course, total nonsense.

but the observation that what it felt like to some men was siding with women, in some supposed battle of sexes, does give us some insight into how these kind of men think, and what they think about the world around them.

speeder 10-28-2024 02:07 PM

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Originally Posted by cockerpunk (Post 12347710)
i don't advocate for women, i advocate for men taking responsibility for there own actions, thoughts, and feelings.

if you can't tell the difference, then you probably need to examine your own thoughts and feelings as to why that is.

there is only one persons actions, thoughts and feelings we can change, and thats our own.

I agree and I’m cool with my own actions/thoughts/feelings and not threatened by yours or others. We may not see everything the same way but I respect your right to your opinions.

I am going through the process of cutting someone out of my life at the moment because of his sick relationship w women and sex, IMO. I just don’t want to hear what he has to say anymore. I can have *non-rosey* opinions about my fellow human beings at times but he goes way beyond what I can accept.

Peace out.

Dixie 10-28-2024 05:28 PM

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Originally Posted by speeder (Post 12347804)
I agree and I’m cool with my own actions/thoughts/feelings and not threatened by yours or others. We may not see everything the same way but I respect your right to your opinions.

Thank you for your post. It's refreshing, given I was wondering WTF y'all wouldn't argue about. (That's the more inclusive y'all of all men.)

Alan A 02-04-2025 07:03 PM

Yay. Another AI bot FTW.

stealthn 02-04-2025 10:04 PM

Sorry I’m just catching the last pages of Dixie’s threat and I got into some weird men’s venting group? :D

LWJ 05-09-2025 11:04 PM

I have absolutely not read every comment on this as there are 21 pages and my attention span just can't do it. But I do have a thought / advice.

Desperation / micro desperation is a horrible toxic thing and you need to work to stay away from any sort of it. Other people have mentioned just being yourself and similar. You need to chill out and play slightly aloof while signaling your interest. It is a VERY fine line.

When I was working full time, I addressed sales desperation by having a huge funnel of prospects. This meant that if someone didn't work out I had volumes of work and it wasn't a loss. Result: not desperate.

I don't really know how to play this out in dating. But it is important to be aware so you don't fall into the trap.

GOOD LUCK! Dixie, you come across as intelligent, emotionally mature, and interesting just on PPOT. I suspect you are even better in person.

Dixie 05-10-2025 09:42 AM

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Originally Posted by LWJ (Post 12462353)
Dixie, you come across as intelligent, emotionally mature, and interesting just on PPOT. I suspect you are even better in person.

Thank ya for the compliment. You're very sweet.

KFC911 05-11-2025 02:10 AM

LOL ... leave it to a bot :D

Dixie ... hope "we're good" ... time ... ???

:)

Dixie 05-11-2025 04:24 AM

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Originally Posted by KC911 (Post 12462847)
LOL ... leave it to a bot :D

Dixie ... hope "we're good" ... time ... ???

:)

Sure. How can I not be with LWJ claiming I'm emotionally mature? That I go all Beth Dutton from time to time is just one of my many charms.

wilnj 05-11-2025 04:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Dixie (Post 12462866)
Beth Dutton

Swoon.

Steve Carlton 05-11-2025 06:22 AM

Mmmmmm….. Beth.

3rd_gear_Ted 05-11-2025 09:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Dixie (Post 12462866)
Sure. How can I not be with LWJ claiming I'm emotionally mature? That I go all Beth Dutton from time to time is just one of my many charms.

Proof yet again of the lifelong mystery a Woman can be.:D:cool:

Dixie 05-13-2025 05:31 AM

Parking this mussing here 'cause IDK where it belongs....

Wyatt grasped the stool and pulled. The stool, with me on it, slid to him. It stopped when our shoulders touched. I liked that. I liked that a lot. Enough that a flutter of butterflies erupted in my heart. Wyatt pushed his cowboy hat back some, leaned in, and spoke softly, "what I like most about you is your great personality." The butterflies vanished. I sat motionless, staring straight ahead. Calmly I replied,
Wyatt, you need to add that I'm pretty. Women want to hear we're pretty, not that we have personality. I didn't get all dolled up and put on a skirt that barely covers the promised land because men are attracted to personality.
Wyatt grinned and wrapped his arm about my waist. "Oh, you're pretty all right. Sexy too, but you're a spitfire, and that's what sets you apart."

- The Adventures of Bobbi Sue, Southern Belle Bound for Hell

sugarwood 05-18-2025 07:22 AM

Lol

Rot 911 05-18-2025 07:57 AM

Bobbi Sue needs to quit reading romance novels. On the other hand sugarwood’s post had me laughing out loud!

speeder 05-18-2025 09:13 AM

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Originally Posted by sugarwood (Post 12466752)
Gotta love AI generated romance fiction where grandmothers in skirts are referring to their "promised land"

https://media.tenor.com/B8Ixcp6z0w8A...carrey-gag.gif

Especially when it might not be what was promised! :eek:

Steve Carlton 05-18-2025 01:24 PM

Might be prolapsed.

HobieMarty 05-18-2025 05:06 PM

Oh my gawd!!!! [emoji38]

Sent from my SM-S916U using Tapatalk

Dixie 05-18-2025 05:54 PM

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Originally Posted by sugarwood (Post 12466752)
Gotta love AI generated romance fiction.

I'll take your thinking it's AI as a compliment since I wrote every word. Writing is one of my little hobbies.

As for the tone of your post, as well as those of a few others, I'll just overlook that. You're really not worth my time.

Targa68 05-20-2025 05:47 AM

http://forums.pelicanparts.com/uploa...1747745227.jpg
BAM!

Sooner or later 05-20-2025 06:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Dixie (Post 12464023)
Parking this mussing here 'cause IDK where it belongs....

Wyatt grasped the stool and pulled. The stool, with me on it, slid to him. It stopped when our shoulders touched. I liked that. I liked that a lot. Enough that a flutter of butterflies erupted in my heart. Wyatt pushed his cowboy hat back some, leaned in, and spoke softly, "what I like most about you is your great personality." The butterflies vanished. I sat motionless, staring straight ahead. Calmly I replied,
Wyatt, you need to add that I'm pretty. Women want to hear we're pretty, not that we have personality. I didn't get all dolled up and put on a skirt that barely covers the promised land because men are attracted to personality.
Wyatt grinned and wrapped his arm about my waist. "Oh, you're pretty all right. Sexy too, but you're a spitfire, and that's what sets you apart."

- The Adventures of Bobbi Sue, Southern Belle Bound for Hell

Try as he might it took Wyatt 40 days and 40 nights to finally reach the promised land. And in reality as it was.nothing more than a sand box.

cockerpunk 05-20-2025 06:37 AM

big yikes guys, big yikes.

dixie shares something she wrote that she thinks is hot, and you guys are all like *waves hands* this?




male loneliness epidemic indeed. lol.

Dixie 05-20-2025 07:30 AM

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Originally Posted by cockerpunk (Post 12467857)
dixie shares something she wrote...

They're just mad they're not Wyatt. ;)

Targa68 05-20-2025 07:52 AM

Hahaha

cockerpunk 05-20-2025 07:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Dixie (Post 12467889)
They're just mad they're not Wyatt. ;)

could have left it at "they are just mad"





like, doesn't float my boat, but we are of very different ages, life positions, its also pretty clear that we probably appreciate different things in relationships. but like, im not here to yuck anyone's yum. and the need to respond taking credit away from you, or going all red pill over it, is just, ~wild~. like no one asked you. if you have a **** opinion, keep it to yourself. like why would you share that if you are a dude?

also the amount of thirsting after you dixie, makes it clear that someone, somewhere, should probably be taking notes. like guys, dixie is talking about what revs her engine, someone, somewhere, wants to do that. so like they should be taking notes.

like, what the reasonable **** are these dudes doing? no wonder women hate you.

RANDY P 05-20-2025 08:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Sooner or later (Post 12467842)
Try as he might it took Wyatt 40 days and 40 nights to finally reach the promised land. And in reality as it was.nothing more than a sand box.

40 days? LOL **** that, 2 days or I'm out.

Wyatt=highly, highly intoxicated. Go home Wyatt, you're drunk.

rjp

cockerpunk 05-20-2025 08:11 AM

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Originally Posted by RANDY P (Post 12467917)
40 days? LOL **** that, 2 days or I'm out.

Wyatt=highly, highly intoxicated. Go home Wyatt, you're drunk.

rjp

its a good thing to feel good about someone you are about to ****.

like jesus. its worse than i could possibly imagine.

guys, is it gay to be into women? lol.

RANDY P 05-20-2025 08:21 AM

Oh and to think I was just figuring you as a white knight, or "Beth". IDK- hard to tell with you.

Have at it, wont fight you over this one. All you.

rjp

cockerpunk 05-20-2025 08:24 AM

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Originally Posted by RANDY P (Post 12467932)
Oh and to think I was just figuring you as a white knight, or "Beth". IDK- hard to tell with you.

Have at it, wont fight you over this one. All you.

rjp

see, i dont want to sleep with dixie. but i still think its important to call out men behaving badly due to her existing as a woman.

thats why you are a bad person, and i am not.

it may be related to why so many men are part of this loneliness epidemic, and i am not. but thats another layer entirely. turns out when you treat women like people, they dont mind spending time with you. shocking i know.

RANDY P 05-20-2025 08:26 AM

Who said anything about Dixie? LOL.

rjp

jyl 05-20-2025 09:44 AM

What happened to behaving like gentlemen?

ramonesfreak 05-20-2025 09:45 AM

loneliness epidemic? why do you jump on every bandwagon like its actually real and then go around proselytizing your righteous baloney?

Ive never been lonely in my life. I dont know anybody that is lonely because they are single. Typically, myself included, people who are single are very happy and choose to remain single. Im married but I lived alone for 15 years and I was happy as could be.

If a person is lonely, they need to go do some chores or get a hobby, or start drinkin.

Having a woman or a man has nothing to do with it and is certainly no guarantee that you wont be lonely. A person can be married 50 years and be the loneliest person in the world...you'll see :-)

I don't bother chasing mice around
I slink down the alley, looking for a fight
Howling to the moonlight on a hot summer night

Singin' the blues while the lady cats cry.....


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Originally Posted by cockerpunk (Post 12467935)
see, i dont want to sleep with dixie. but i still think its important to call out men behaving badly due to her existing as a woman.

thats why you are a bad person, and i am not.

it may be related to why so many men are part of this loneliness epidemic, and i am not. but thats another layer entirely. turns out when you treat women like people, they dont mind spending time with you. shocking i know.



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