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				It pays to be nice thread
			 
			What comps have you've gotten for being nice?  (It's the antithesis of the Pet Peeves thread.) I spoke to the S. Beach hotel receptionist using my rusty Spanish and a bit of charm. Without asking, the guy upgraded me from a hotel room, to a full apartment.    
				__________________ Dixie Bradenton, FL 2013 Camaro ZL1 | ||
|  11-08-2023, 01:48 PM | 
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| Information Overloader Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: NW Lower Michigan 
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			Problem is, the payback is not always appreciated immediately.  Sometimes it takes years. The good part is that those paybacks are cumulative over a lifetime. | ||
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| Registered Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: west michigan 
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			Taco Bell screwed up my order once. I told them...no problem, I'll eat it anyway. They gave it to me for free. 
				__________________ 78 SC Targa Black....gone 84 Carrera Targa White 98 Honda Prelude 22 Honda Civic SI | ||
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| Registered Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Long Beach CA, the sewer by the sea. 
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			Nothing comes to mind.
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| It'll be legen-waitforit Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Calgary, Canada 
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			No real upgrades or anything but I know a little Tagalog and it really gets me treated nice from Filipinos. My wife is always shocked when random people know me just for being nice to them in their native language 😀
		 
				__________________ Bob James 06 Cayman S - Money Penny 18 Macan GTS Gone: 79 911SC, 83 944, 05 Cayenne Turbo, 10 Panamera Turbo | ||
|  11-08-2023, 07:29 PM | 
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| Registered Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Lake Oswego, OR 
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			This is my primary behavior. I am nice. I am helpful. I am courteous. Etc.  A smile gets so very many doors opened. I am traveling with my wife as I write. We have Covid. We follow the rules. Inform our hosts. And people are accommodating to our (nasty, infectious) needs. We have only had super positive experiences traveling. And, I only speak English. A smile, a thank you and recognition are universally valued. | ||
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| Registered Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Cambridge, MA 
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			The best thing about being nice to others is it makes them nice to others. 
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|  11-09-2023, 04:14 AM | 
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| I see you Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: NJ 
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I get the satisfaction of knowing that I'm (generally) a nice guy.
		 
				__________________ Si non potes inimicum tuum vincere, habeas eum amicum and ride a big blue trike. "'Bipartisan' usually means that a larger-than-usual deception is being carried out." | ||
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			It does not cost extra to be nice
		 
				__________________ She was the kindest person I ever met | ||
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