Read the "Monk who Sold His Ferrari. "

OHHHH......"what's it all about...Alfie"?

I agree with Souk..Terry isn't in a world of hurt..but he has asked the question why? Which is important....

The question I pose is ...Terry can you sit there and do nothing..no change if you choose or are you DRIVEN to keep on doing things...if you are driven to keep on chnaging things then find out the reason so you are in charge of your own destiny...

Very driven, not sure why. Still not sure its a bad thing.

What I write depresses U and annoys you so you become dismissive...which allows U to maintain a superior position...Maybe what I write just forces you to think...and U don't want to think to hard....You'd rather just gloss over the surface of things....and call it good...:) and thats from a guy who can drop 25K into my collection of things.....

What happens if you take the key outa the ignition???? and just sit...how do you feel? Antsy, depressed...

Driven to me means lack of choich..it means a complusion, a mania...an avoidence of...you have to do this or else??????

All I say is unravel that driven feeling (Knot) and you are in charge of what you do...and in the endyou will probably find you love to do these projects... but the key is that you love to do it...finding the reason why you do something sets you free...

Terry - buy the ticket, buy the ticket, buy the ticket. Live without...earn to get back...

I frankly don't see the problem. It's like hey, we've got a guy over here who's a poor performer at the task of "couch potato." So, obviously he's a deeply troubled fellow.

Bull****. I say tell him to do himself the favor of just making sure some of those energies are focused in a positive direction.

I was chatting with my co-worker around mid-day today about the complaints we hear from young people these days. They report that time just drags, and that they're bored. "There's nothing to do" they say. Well, neither my co-worker nor myself can recall having that problem, even in our youths.

Observe some sensible safety principles, and just tear into project after project. Buy depressed properties in good neighborhoods and make them into doll houses.

Oh, and when you get rid of hot babes, give them my business card.

sell it all to buy a Christmas tree farm in Upstate NY...

Perhaps this tale will help… (I’ll keep it short)

A young man went to see his minister. “I have great cars, a hot girlfriend, a terrific condo, and a wonderful job. Yet I’m still unhappy”

The minister pondered for a while and answered, “Hmmm.. This is a hard one, but I have an answer. You need to buy a goat.”

The young man bought a goat. Within a week he returned to the minister. “I have a huge problem! The homeowners association is threatening legal action over the goat. Plus, the animal ate all my furniture. If that’s not enough, it defecated all inside my cars, scared off my girlfriend, and it’s making my career suffer as well!”

“Ah” the minister responded. “I know how to solve all your problems. Get rid of the goat.”




(In other word, you ain’t got a problem.)

Capt:

agreed!!!

You sound confused.

U got that right. :)

Terry, take heed.

Tabby needs to add "sage" to his byline. Wise words indeed.

Yeah, tabs knows...that's clear.
As in, his words are not from mental content...they are from direct knowing.
Times like this have me be grateful for the suffering in my life.
For w/o that, I'd not know that he knows.