A friend of mine was in Costa Rica on a surfing safari with friends. They went to a strip club and were having a great time. BTW- The crew he was with was mixed company, guys and girls all having some fun.

So my buddy decides to go back stage and put on a thong and suprise his friends with a pole dance on stage. This guy is probably to only person I know who could pull this off. The strippers in the club cooperated with him and he brought down the house with laughter and cheers.

When he got back stage to change back into his clothes the strippers attacked him. Six of them jumped him at once pinning him down while one began oral on him exclaiming she was going to f*ck his brains out. He was freaking out figuring this going to result in him getting aids or a very nasty std.

He was able to break free and get away. Was he being raped? He thought so.

Unfortunately, Jim, that sounds like one of my favorite fantasies.

I guess I am disturbed.

bad
boys
rape
our
young
girls
but
violet
goes
willingly

get
some
now
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I can't believe they taught us that in school!
-Chris

To answer the original question, the answer is that it's theoretically possible, but rarely if ever happens -- certainly not in the cases where female schoolteachers are having sex with teenage boys. In those cases a more accurate description would be "molesting or abusing"; not rape. People are always stretching and amplifying the definition of words in an attempt to make their point stronger.
Another classic example of this is the definition of "racist". Once reserved for KKK members and Nazis, now it's often applied by some members of the left to anybody who thinks affirmative action is a bad social policy. In the final analysis, these redefinitions of terms only cheapens the language and undercuts the impact that terms like rapist and racist should have.

Poor choice of words. I actually though of that, but it took you to bring it out. ;) Touché once again. :D

I repeat, you need to understand the definition of rape. Here is what an online dictionary says:


Merriam-Webster Online Dictionary


"Main Entry: mo·lest
Pronunciation: m&-'lest
Function: transitive verb
Etymology: Middle English, from Middle French molester, from Latin molestare, from molestus burdensome, annoying; akin to Latin moles mass
1 : to annoy, disturb, or persecute especially with hostile intent or injurious effect
2 : to make annoying sexual advances to; especially : to force physical and usually sexual contact on (Poster's note: That is where it ended, I didn't snip anything)

Main Entry: 3rape
Function: noun
1 : an act or instance of robbing or despoiling or carrying away a person by force
2 : unlawful sexual activity and usually sexual intercourse carried out forcibly or under threat of injury against the will usually of a female or with a person who is beneath a certain age or incapable of valid consent -- compare SEXUAL ASSAULT, STATUTORY RAPE
3 : an outrageous violation "

Notice the common use of the words "force(ibly)" and "sexual." Pretty much the same thing, if you ask me. But, in the parlance of the mental health community, it IS the same thing. And equally punishable.

I don't normally stoop to an argument ad hominem, but you've really got to be some kind of an idiot. I read here that others call you liberal. I desperately hope this (meaning your thinking) is not the position of the liberal agenda and that you are way out on a limb by yourself. Now, I'm gonna go get a saw and hand it to my wife. I really don't know what she would prefer to do, cut the limb or cut your dick off.

Keep in mind, Aurel is a Professor at a East Coast University...is this a demonstration of the "clear thinking" he passes on to young skulls full of mush?

I completely agree with you. I also have to add, however, It's used by the right as well.....

Remember them accusing the democrats of being racist because of the drilling Condi during the confirmation hearings?

It sucks. IMO, it trivializes a very serious issue that is real (but not in these scenarios you and I point out), racism.

Perhaps the lynchmob needs to reread this post by Aurel:


Strap-on would definetely be rape, DD74, by the definition of non-consensual penetration. That is what rape is. And yes, France does severly prosecute rape too. What the female school teachers do to young boys is molestation, not rape. It does not make it right, but this is not rape. Now, it is defined as statutory rape, as Hard-drive made very clear: they may be aroused and enjoy it, but they are being taken advantage of by an adult, without knowledge of the emotional consequences. I really did not mean to offend anyone, and I was just curious to ask if a man or boy penetrating a woman could be considered being raped. Apparently, according to Singpilot, yes. So, I learned something tonight. Thanks.



His point was that he couldn't understand how a woman could physically rape a man as he was thinking man needs a tool to work for rape to occur, which he felt would be impossible in that situation. He stood corrected.

Only an old sparks chaser knows that this means! Am showing my age here... Grew up with Heathkit in my house!

Joe A

All crazy hypotheticals aside, I would love to hear the full story involved with the recent rash of female teachers "raping" their students. While it would legally fall into the realm of statutory rape, I very highly doubt that any of those boys were forced into sex with their teachers. Hell, that's a wet dream for 99% of high school boys. It is illegal, and they should be punished, but it's a whole different department from forced, non-consentual rape.

The real question is...and it's assumed that it is consensual...should the sentences for a 25 yr old woman and a 14 yrd old boy be different for a 25 yr old man and a 14 yr old girl?

Correct. I was 12 and 14 when I had my first experiences. Neither of them were rape and we both enjoyed ourselves. In todays world she would be charged and thats pure BS bit politically correct.

I prefer the old way more than our new politically correct version...

JoeA

Absolutely not. They should be equal.

bad
boys
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young
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OK, I'll show my ignorance. I'm as old as you, Joe, if not older (60), and I missed that one as an adolescent. You or James can shoot me a PM and tell me about that.

Oh, and Heathkit. There probably was a thread or 3 about the old comics. But, since I don't get involved over here on OT that much, I missed that too. If there wasn't a good one, that would be a hell of a lot better to discuss than this. Some comics were so poignant and they are sorely missed.

Resistor color codes:

Black = 0
Brown = 1
Red = 2
Orange = 3
Yellow = 4
Green = 5
Blue = 6
Violet = 7
Grey = 8
White = 9

Oh, jeez. There were some of those crazy senseless sentences for cable splicing at the phone company, too. RGYBOWB or something. I did the phone pole thing for 9 months and went back to cars. It was '64.

Now, back to our feature this evening, "Raped Apes." Directed by Woody Allen with special guest appearance by Jerry Lee Lewis. ;)

C'mon guys, we all know the oldest "date rape" drug known to man is beer. None of us are immune.

someone posted a similiar experience earlier.

I was 16, she was 38, friend of my mom, looked like Blythe Danner when she was young. Mrs. Robinson had her way with me and taught me. Other girls my age were simply not experienced, so for a long time, it kind of sucked.

Looking back in retrospect, it was wrong of her to do what she did, but I didnt mind at the time. God bless the double standard

you were 12 and she was over 18? Sorry, but that is just plain wrong. Maybe you got lucky and have no psychological scars (but how many divorces?), but that is a recipe for screwing somebody up big time. Doesn't matter which is the male and which is the female (agewise).

Todd,

When I was 12 the girl was 15 and when I was 14 she was 18. They were both single, so do not give me that "scars" crap.

Not a large difference but today both ladies would be in jail if caught. Do not feel that its right, then nor now. It was two kids experiencing sex and no rape what so ever.

JoeA