Right now its as good as it going to get with her. If you hit it you lose in her eyes. If you don't when she tried to give it to you she will respect you for life. Do you like your life, your job, get caught with the co-worker and it all may change. Be careful.

Weigh risk vs reward. Is this kid worth losing what you have now? Do you honestly think this is a just one night stand? It will be plenty awkward since you're going to see her at work every day? You are way better off buying a hooker with pigtails and bobby sox.

There's no such thing as an "extra million."


...whoops - wrong thread.

I would not do it.

Not sure what your 'fixed' relationship is. This thing has potential to blow up on so many levels....

Other other hand....(little devil sits down on my shoulder....)

Something's not right here. Dunno what it is, it just doesn't sound right. And I'm not even talking about moral implications and complications.

Go away from that one.

She could be working for your current. Wouldn't THAT suck!

No matter what you do, get rid of the "baby batter on the brain" before you make a decision.

Hell. Jump it like Evel Kineval and the Grand Canyon.

Run like the wind!
If you are in a good relationship why risk it?
A co-worker? A lot of problems for nothing.
A virgin, what a bore.
Age difference, the body might be hot but what do you talk about afterwards?

Heck, I've had a few offers like this from women my age. In every case, I decided it wasn't worth risking my present relationship. Good thing too, as the offeree usually latched on to one of my friends and quickly showed her true colors...

The little sister from 'Wedding Crashers' comes to mind. They all became ultra-clingy once a relationship was consumated. The poor saps they ended up with had to go to extraordinary measures to end the relationships (moving, changing phone numbers). I think the fact that you work with this woman would only compound what would already be a bad situation.

Just an aside, one of these girls that all of my friends ended up rejecting...I saw her a few months later. She had gained 30-40 pounds in two months! She was good looking when she was trying to, um, score, but she went downhill fast. I knew something was wrong with her when she kept trying convince me that she was the one who actually wrote a bunch of Smashing Pumpkins songs...

kill her

Yeah, these tidy bullets pretty much sum up my position and seem to (disappointingly - I was hoping for inspiration) reflect the consensus here. The proposition is loads of fun to contemplate - but we all know the right answer. (with the odd exception - the likes of Victor)

Isn't it fascinating how we (40+ men) seem to gain traction with women; particularily young women as we age? What a blast to be a bit of a "cunny-tease" after all those years of well.... you know.

Very impressive display of morality here lads. Yeah right - you lying bustards....

Kudos to JP for the most innovative solution so far.

But the question remains for you crotchety bustards (Joeaksa?) that are hitting younger women - what do you talk about afterwards?

Ditto. Good looking girl, in her mid twenties that can't find a "worthy" mate?

Probably cuz she's a head case.

She's saying everything you want to hear. Why?

LOL!!!! Brilliant. The epitomy of male "pragmaticism". Like George says (something like this) on that Seinfeld episode where Jerry's banging a gorgeous bich...

George: "...in the classic debate between the penis and the brain - the penis always wins - well at least until the man turns 40."

Jerry: "what happens then?"

George: "well, the penis still wins, but the debate lasts a little longer".

What are you nuts??? There will be a rabbit boiling in a pot in your kitchen, your kids will be crying, wife will never trust you again...the list goes on and on...no amount of pu**y in the world is worth that kind of grief. Listen to Isabo...once again the voice of reason. Go hug your wife now.

Yep, kudos to JP for the best and most innovative solution.

Drago's story stings. That's the one you should consider. It's unanimous, you see. If you boink this babe, your life will become immensely stressful and your existing relationship will probably fail. The odds of getting away with this are remote at best. Then there is the ethical stuff, aside from consequences. Who do you see in the mirror in the morning when you shave? He'll be there every morning. He might become someone you don't respect.

But I have to say my situation is unique. I've ended a long term relationship (25+ years) and am just now starting to feel open to dating. I also have developed, especially lately, a full appreciation for honesty and straightforward communications. It's true: What you confess, no matter how ugly, is not nearly as hurtful as what you withhold, no matter how mundane. I cannot personally envision a long term successful relationship. But I can easily get my mind around temporary and part-time ones. Positions are currently available on a first-come first-served basis. All questions answered as completely and candidly as it exists in my mind and in truth.

So, since I do not have a primary "relationship," applications will be accepted 24/7. If I received an application from a 20-something virgin hottie, I'd clear a portion of my calendar for negotiations. I think I'd make an excellent insructor. Student progress would primarily depend on the student's degree of natural aptitude combined with the focus/commitment variable. Accelerated coursework could be made available to the especially gifted and/or motivated student.

Honestly is not going to save me from getting crushed in some romantic machinery, but it's my new permanent policy anyway.

Send her to a trusted gynocologist for a PPI to make sure she is "as advertised". Just like our beloved P-cars, any 20-some-odd year old example that is advertised as "rust-free" should be suspect. Then see if you can contact a PO for driving impressions...

What story Sup?

I only offered that he can claim he was at my place the entire time.

You must have me confused with Dantilla. :cool:

:D

hit it...repeatedly and often... :)

Brilliant!

Seriously, you have your answer. If the person you're in a relationship with is just your girlfriend well, they come and go. If it's your wife well, they come and go too but when they go, they take half your $hit.

As Bill Clinton would say, "I feel your pain". But on this one I would take a pass. Too many red flags:
Religious - you'll have to explain to her every day why she's not going straight to hell.
Virgin - if you've never done one it's not all that fun until several months later. By that time you could be homeless and jobless.
Age - you have nothing to talk with a young girl about besides tapping that a$$. It's almost painful to try.
Significant other - see first paragraph.

However, if you do hit it take some photos and share with your Pelican brothers. Young girls love posing nude!

:D