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sammyg2 01-19-2007 07:11 AM

It's actually a good thing that many kids from public schools are not well educated. When my kids grow up they will need lots of uneducated low paid workers to work for the companies my kids will run.

Too many people blaming the schools. My kids are well educated because I make it that way. I work with them on their homework at night, they lose priviledges if they don't get at least a 3.5 average, a C grade would make them lose all priviledges, but they don't get Cs.

Lots of people in this country ship their kids off to school each day (on days when the teachers actually feel like working) as if it was a baby-sitting service. It's not the school's job to raise the kids, it's the parents.

JavaBrewer 01-19-2007 09:01 AM

Schools today EXPECT that kids know the alphabet before entering kindergarten and can read simple words like Mom, Dad, Pig, Cow, etc... My daughter was reading by the end of kindergarten and my son in 1st grade. In the 60's I remember we learned the alphabet in 1st grade and started reading in 2nd-3rd grade. My son, in 4th grade, has ~ 2 hours of homework (1 hr study, 1 hr reading) nightly. If he stays in during lunch hour he usually knocks out the study portion before the end of class.

We read to our kids everyday when they were toddlers. Homework for kids is about learning good study habits and managing priorities. The key is to gauge the amount of work so that they still have time to be kids. Personally I never liked reading as a kid and my son was following in my footsteps. It's my wife who pushed the issue and taught him to enjoy reading. He now enjoys picking a book at the library and reading it at home. If you expect the school to do all that then you're in for a sad experience.

A simple analogy. My son has played baseball for 5 seasons now. Spring ball just had their draft and first practices start this weekend. There are two distinct levels of kids, ones who can really play well and those that can't. The ones who excel do so because of the extra effort invested by the kid and parents beyond what they get from the team. The kids who don't practice outside the team rarely become the exceptional player. Parents should not rely on the team to "teach" their kid baseball skills like hitting and fielding. That is the parents job. The team is there to organize the games and get kids together.

pwd72s 01-19-2007 09:39 AM

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Originally posted by sammyg2
It's actually a good thing that many kids from public schools are not well educated. When my kids grow up they will need lots of uneducated low paid workers to work for the companies my kids will run.

Too many people blaming the schools. My kids are well educated because I make it that way. I work with them on their homework at night, they lose priviledges if they don't get at least a 3.5 average, a C grade would make them lose all priviledges, but they don't get Cs.

Lots of people in this country ship their kids off to school each day (on days when the teachers actually feel like working) as if it was a baby-sitting service. It's not the school's job to raise the kids, it's the parents.

agreed 100%...it's the government schools undermining of the parents that I object to.

gaijindabe 01-19-2007 10:54 AM

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Originally posted by dmoolenaar
Schools today EXPECT that kids know the alphabet before entering kindergarten and can read simple words like Mom, Dad, Pig, Cow, etc... My daughter was reading by the end of kindergarten and my son in 1st grade. In the 60's I remember we learned the alphabet in 1st grade and started reading in 2nd-3rd grade.

All that pre-K reading is a load of crap and loads up on the kids all kinds of false expections and early "failures". A lot is coming out on this topic now. It is just the way thier brains are wired. Particularly for boys.

I think it was in this thread (further back) that they do not start teaching reading in Sweden till someting like 7 years of age..

My nephew was a "late" reader - and the school wanted to treat it as some kind of learning disability. Now he is in 4th grade - is all caught up and doing very, very well.

Tim Walsh 01-19-2007 01:26 PM

I think a big part of this is the trend towards teaching kids more and more advanced subjects and earlier and earlier age. ie when I went through school algebra 1 was taught in 8th grade, and now I belive it's 7th grade, when this was a high school subject traditionally.

Instead of mastering subjects before moving on we're pushing kids into more and more indepth subjects that developmentally they aren't ready for yet.

Moses 01-19-2007 01:30 PM

Re: 50% of all children are below average!!!
 
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Originally posted by snowman
50% of all children are below average!!
100% of my mother's were. :(

Dave Nordhoff 01-19-2007 05:47 PM

My wife and I have spent 10 to 15 minutes a day reading to and with our daughters since they were a few months old. They are now 6 and 8 and are way ahead of most children in their classes. It takes so little effort and the results are so great. One of the first words they were taught was please. When they started kindergarten they could write their names and address and read pretty well. Parents that expect the school system to teach their children everything will be disappointed.

My 2 cents,

Dave

Jims5543 01-19-2007 06:09 PM

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Originally posted by sammyg2
It's actually a good thing that many kids from public schools are not well educated. When my kids grow up they will need lots of uneducated low paid workers to work for the companies my kids will run.




+1 I agree 100% with you, we need to get stripper and porn stars from somewhere.

Jims5543 01-19-2007 06:22 PM

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Originally posted by Dave Nordhoff
My wife and I have spent 10 to 15 minutes a day reading to and with our daughters since they were a few months old. They are now 6 and 8 and are way ahead of most children in their classes. It takes so little effort and the results are so great. One of the first words they were taught was please. When they started kindergarten they could write their names and address and read pretty well. Parents that expect the school system to teach their children everything will be disappointed.

My 2 cents,

Dave

Bullcrap!!

My 13 y/o son has problems with dislexia and some sort of learnign diability that we have not been able to pinpoint but his tutor says he compensates for it very well although it takes a lof of his resources to accomplish that.

We never realized how bad off he was unitl we saw our 3 y/o develop.

We depended on the teachers in the school to monitor him and tell us if they saw something wrong. They never did they didn't care. They could not be bothered. He just annoyed them and they beat him down because he could not keep up.

Now that we see how naturally everythign is coming to our 3 y/o we realize, much too late out 13 y/o had some serious issues ignored by the school and we didn't realize it because he was our 1st child. If this had been the case with our 2nd child after a normal 1st we would have picked up on it immediatly.

My 3 y/o has know for a while now the sounds of every letter in the alphabet, his colors, not only basic lots of others as well, all his shapes, and now he is starting to understand days of the week, all these things did not come to out older one until 1st grade and later.

The "professional" teachers of his school let him and his parents down in a huge way. Furthermore some of them felt the need to attck his self esteem because he was not smart enough to keep up.

We read to him every night for longer than 15 minutes, more like 1/2 an hour each night, it has always been a bedtime ritual. I have worked so hard with him to help him pass his classes after his teachers failed to teach him the tools he needed to pass. In middle school he got home at 4:30 and went straight to a tutor for 1 hour then we got him back home at 6:00, ate dinner and did home work until 8-9 at night EVERY night.

My 12 y/o son had no life, I remember going out to play and having fun growing up, he got none of that just work all day in school and work all night at home.

Something had to change and the best thing I did was get him away from those *******s. I wish I did this when he was little it makes me cry sometimes that I let him down so much and did not realize that his public school was beating I hope I can make this up to him over the next couple of years.

He tries really hard to get C's by some of your expectations on here he is a failure. Too bad his professional teachers could not pick up on his problems. I am sure it my fault somehow because I was not in the school every day and I didn't do 10 hours a night homework and read for 6 hours with him.

snowman 01-19-2007 08:06 PM

Both of my kids survived the whole experience of public schools because they are very bright, no other reason. Yet my youngest was not taught how to read by the third grade and she is near genius! This shows how the public school system has totally failed our children. If a kid with an IQ of 140 is failing, how the heck is a normal kid doing? WTF is the school system doing? Screwing up, BIG time. The only reason my older kid did ok is that she is much brighter, IQ is in the 180 plus range.

My family has been in the teaching business for over 500 years. All of my grandmothers were teachers, going way back. My immediate family consists of teachers, principles, married to principles and so forth. My grandmother, who has taught school form 1918 untill 1975 was very discouraged by the direction of public education. Her kids graduated from HS at age 12. They attended an 8 grade one room school with no computers or other fancy stuff, yet they could do the NY times Sunday crossword puzzle in 1/2 hour and find every error the Times made.

Public schooling is failing, period. I recommend that we no longer support it, at all. Send your child to a private school. Vote no on any increase in public schooling. Starve the beast!

RoninLB 01-19-2007 09:35 PM

you're all crazy


The public school bureauracy has become the biggest scam in the US. Through Judicial fiat the political manipulators rake in big bucks. It's the perfect scam supported by parents during summer elections. You guys are paying $555/day for a headache. Nothing will change unless a strong political opponent comes along. If that happens then it hopefully can be power to the people in the Legislature.

$ & bennies = $100k/180days = $555day/4hrs = $138hr

their ot is another booby prize :D

nostatic 01-19-2007 11:24 PM

fantasy from both sides of the country...entertaining reading though. Might make a decent screenplay...

jluetjen 01-20-2007 04:14 AM

This thread confirmed for me a few things...

1) Most people don't understand squat about statistics
2) A lot of education is political
3) School (like many things in life) is what you make of it
4) Kids learn from what they see their parents say and do

OK, of course half of the students will be "below average" as was stated earlier! Anyone who doesn't get that, or is shocked by it apparently didn't get a good education in math. The trick is to focus attention on improving the performance of the bottom half of the distribution, which is the most effective way to shift the entire distribution to a higher level of performance.

Good or bad, educational decisions are made politically. That's life. Much of education is thankfully clear cut (2+2=4), but much is not and may never be (2+2*4=???) without some sort of understanding of what the agreed upon rules are going to be. That's what politics does in our society.

But at the end of the day, School like most things is life is what you make of it. There are some great public schools, and some incompitent school districts. There are some great private schools, and some hopelessly eletist schools turning out twits. There will be good kids who find themselves mis-cast into the wrong programs, or in bad situations, and some gems who seem to thrive no matter what sort of situations they find themselves. There will be other kids who have all of the right things taught to them, but still end up winning a darwin award or starting world war III.

Which brings me to us (in many cases) parents. It's really our job to see that our kid is well equiped for life, by taking advantage of what society has to offer. If our kids see us cheating, wasting time and resources, slacking off, treating other badly, etc. etc. etc., they will most likely end up doing the same no matter what school system they wind up in. But if we teach them, and show them how to respect and help others, try their best, be thoughtful and prepare diligently, chances are they'll be fine -- no matter what sort of educational situation they happen to find themselves in.

Bill Verburg 01-20-2007 05:32 AM

2+2*4=
any JHS math student ought to be able to tell that it is equal to 10

May not though because he probably uses a calculator programed by someone that did pay atttetion in math class and knows the the order of operation is x then +

Now it's a different story in history and english classes especially where eubonics has supplanted real english and activists of one persuasion or another have slanted the curriculum to suit their twisted views, sort of like the USPS at the Grand Canyon being prohibited from mentioning the geologioc age of the canyon to suit the religious fanatics

JavaBrewer 01-20-2007 07:17 AM

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Originally posted by RoninLB
you're all crazy...

$ & bennies = $100k/180days = $555day/4hrs = $138hr

Wow. You got those numbers from where exactly? Hope you didn't just pencil them out on your kitchen counter. :rolleyes:

During the school session teachers at our local Elementry work 10/hr weekdays and continue to work over the weekend and holiday breaks preparing material. Sure there are some who skate but most that we have met were career educators and had an emotional investment in their job.

RoninLB 01-20-2007 07:42 AM

10hr days and only 4hrs teaching.



and just to smooth everything out the political correct progressives teaching political correctness dismiss separating those with IQ's over 120 for a challenging class because that would be unfair [whatever that means?]. They dismiss the fact that the huge group who create many jobs and wealth in this country should be treated differently from the comic book only crowd.

Public schools came into existence to teach foreigners English and reading & writing. Its purpose was to prepare students for the work force and give an understanding of US gov't and policies. Today many junior college grads can't figure out how to make change at a store's check-out when electricity is turned off.

It has morphed into a system whose sole purpose is political activism and bigger pay checks. Although not current info the teachers unions had veto power in the DNC concerning what state issues would be focused on. If the teachers didn't like it it didn't happen.

The exceptional teacher is exactly that.. an exception.


ps: i worked with a teacher friend on preparing and explaining politics concerning local teacher budget contracts.

pwd72s 01-20-2007 08:43 AM

I suspect that many of those defending the government school bureaucracy are one of those bureaucrats or are close financially to someone who is. Lebanon, Oregon average teacher pay + bennies is over $75K per year...a 154 work days year. (free medical, dental, vision care for teacher & entire family, plus PERS retirement. In case of teachers married to each other, one adds the cost of the medical bennies to his or her retirement account)

Where did I get these stats? Ron, that was a school board member who was here last night when you called. Even though our daughter is out of school, Cindy & I remain interested...

The teacher's union doesn't like it when parents object to their political and values indoctrination techniques. This is child abuse in the classroom. Kids talk, parents catch on, then object. Oh, but I forgot, the line is that parents don't care...:rolleyes:

nostatic 01-20-2007 08:50 AM

angry and wrong. a dangerous combination...

pwd72s 01-20-2007 08:53 AM

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Originally posted by nostatic
angry and wrong. a dangerous combination...
I'll admit to angry...now prove me wrong. I write from experience.
I also have never received a government school paycheck.

sammyg2 01-20-2007 09:02 AM

Public school teachers working 10 hours a day, and on weekends and holidays? I gotta call BS on that one. I know lots O'teachers and NONE of them work more that 8 hours ever, except for the varsity football coach, and he only does it during football season. Some of em are home by 3:15 every day except for Fridays, then they are either off or home by noon.

I will concede that it is possible there are a few (as in a handful) out there that might work long hours, but the vast majority are 7 and skate. What really gets me is that they rarely work 5 days a week anymore. Every time I turn around the kids have a day off (convenient for the teachers, eh?) Every single holiday immaginable, at elast one friday off per month and one half day per month, at least a week off in the fall and one in the spring, and at least two weeks off during the holidays, and the entire summer off. That is a part time job. To work that kind of schedule for over $50k a year, not a bad scam but when they threaten to go on strike because the greedy bastards want more, I get pissed.
Then their stupid teamsters (i mean teachers) union is one of the strongest PACs in california. That just isn't right. It isn't about the children, it's about the bank accounts of the teachers. They want to make as much or more than everyone else but are only willing to work half as much for it.


Teachers make a great deal of money per hour. If they want more per year, maybe they should get a full time job like the rest of us instead of going on strike every other year.
If they were worth it I wouldn't mind, but around here they are not so my kids go to private school (even though I still have to pay the salaries of these so called public education professionals.)


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