Serious family issue. need advice - Page 4

72doug2,2S · 72doug2,2S's Garage

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Originally Posted by hitched1

I have truely absolutely no intentions whatsoever. trust me

I would never have thought you had intentions, but the thought has obviously crossed your mind. Post us a bikini pic of her and buy her some luggage as a going away present. She will be knee deep in a new relationship within six months and your worries will be over.

Are you having normal relations with the wife? Perhaps it is time to step up your services a notch until you've nackered yourself into a state of apathetic bliss.

KFC911 · 07-26-2007, 05:10 AM

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Originally Posted by lendaddy

...Yea, not buyin' it. Hell, most of us want to hit it and we've never even seen her.....

Newsflash: PPOT liberals, conservatives and libertarians have reached a unanimous consensus

legion · 07-26-2007, 05:15 AM

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Originally Posted by lendaddy

Yea, this is where you lose me. Without question you want to hit it, a 40 something guy feels pursued by a hot 20 something (of non-blood origins) and you claim to not want to hit it? Yea, not buyin' it. Hell, most of us want to hit it and we've never even seen her.

I think what you mean is "I don't want....to want to hit it.", which is much more honest.

The desire is chemical, it's what we do that matters.

This is one place where a little denial might be the healthy thing.

hitched1 · 07-26-2007, 05:50 AM

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Originally Posted by lendaddy

Yea, this is where you lose me. Without question you want to hit it, a 40 something guy feels pursued by a hot 20 something (of non-blood origins) and you claim to not want to hit it? Yea, not buyin' it. Hell, most of us want to hit it and we've never even seen her.

I think what you mean is "I don't want....to want to hit it.", which is much more honest.

The desire is chemical, it's what we do that matters.

Ok if the situation want what it was, yeah I would. Then again i'd hit anything at this point. Probably even you ( j/k!)LOL

hitched1 · 07-26-2007, 05:54 AM

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Originally Posted by KC911

Newsflash: PPOT liberals, conservatives and libertarians have reached a unanimous consensus

See, I have brought us all together on something. I can sleep well tonight nowing I did something good for humankind!

Seriously, thanks for all your responses. Eased my mind alot.

KFC911 · 07-26-2007, 05:57 AM

So you're not the dividerer...then WHO ARE YOU (...from the old Clint Eastwood western)

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TerryBPP · 07-26-2007, 05:58 AM

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Originally Posted by hitched1

Ok if the situation want what it was, yeah I would. Then again i'd hit anything at this point. Probably even you ( j/k!)LOL

Prepare to get divorced if your wife sees this.

DENY, LIE, DENY, LIE until you die. Healthy marriages are built on it.

bigchillcar · bigchillcar's Garage

she's moving out soon..that's good. i'd ignore it if i were you. live with the assumption that the idea is out of the question and if she is ever to make a serious pass that is quite obvious, then let her know that the answer is 'no' without any hesitation. i wouldn't trouble the wife with this unless i was absolutely certain of her bad intentions. best bet is that she'll soon meet someone when she moves out, get into a relationship and it will go away on its own. if you broach the subject with your wife and you're actually wrong, she'll begin to suspect you of being the 'aggressor' i would think..then you have a real mess within your family. ignore it unless it becomes an obvious issue you must address and then attack it by meeting with your wife. odds are i'd guess if there were anything serious about her alleged advances that she doesn't respect her mother and they probably have some 'history' of this sort of thing. perhaps when the gurl was younger she competed with mom's other boyfriends. i've heard of this happening quite often when the two don't get along and the young girl begins to enter womanhood. good luck with this.

hitched1 · 07-26-2007, 06:21 AM

Ryan, as I said previously shes never made outright advances. Not at all. Its something that was pointed out to me by someone. Which sort of caught me off guard. I had never given it any thought until that point. She has a b/f. Hes a decent guy. Other than the fact she says he boring sometimes. They get along good as far as I know. She and her mom have an incredible relationship , always have. I'm certain she has no bad intentions. and probably dosent even realize shes doing anything. So I'm going to take the majority of the advice on here and worry about it anymore.
As far as the wife., i dont even know why I thought of saying anything, that would be crazy.
Thanks for your thoughts!

NICKG · 07-26-2007, 06:30 AM

any chance you could hook both up at the same time? a mother daughter thing? now that would be cool

Rot 911 · 07-26-2007, 06:36 AM

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Originally Posted by NICKG

any chance you could hook both up at the same time? a mother daughter thing? now that would be cool

Only if it was video taped.

hitched1 · 07-26-2007, 06:39 AM

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Originally Posted by NICKG

any chance you could hook both up at the same time? a mother daughter thing? now that would be cool

Stop it!!! LOL
( if that was the case would I have needed to start this thread in the first place??)

Mo_Gearhead · 07-26-2007, 06:41 AM

Geez...there are some sick bastards here!!

hitched1 · 07-26-2007, 06:45 AM

Thanks guys! Big help!

We will now return to our regulary scheduled programming!

m21sniper · 07-26-2007, 06:49 AM

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Originally Posted by hitched1

I'm already a member of this board( i know i'm not supposed to have 2 names) but out of embarassment I didnt want to use my screen name.
Anyway, I am a HAPPILY, repeat , HAPPILY married man. My wife is wonderful and would not want anything to damage our relationship. The problem is my stepdaughter. She is in her mid 20's, sweet as anything, gorgeous. We get along great. The issue is her additude towards me. Only way to explain it is "overly friendly", pretty much to the point where it is unnerving to be around her. Ive basically made it known that I am not interested. But that hasnt helped

I'm afraid to say anything to the wife. That would destroy her. She is very close with her. Ive yet to ask my friends for advice( they would tell me to jump on it anyway...) What do i do??

and before you dirtbags ask.... No pics!!

Hehe, you lucky dog you. I'd hit that.

m21sniper · 07-26-2007, 06:55 AM

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Originally Posted by hitched1

Shes not the type that would do anything spiteful, especially to her mom.

Wow- you ARE naive. She's a woman....ALL women will act spitefully if sufficiently provoked/angered/scorned/rejected.

craigster59 · craigster59's Garage

Just remember, there is no "I" in threesome...

t951 · t951's Garage

Its the car, chicks dig the car.

scottmandue · 07-26-2007, 07:03 AM

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Originally Posted by lendaddy

I think what you mean is "I don't want....to want to hit it.", which is much more honest.

The desire is chemical, it's what we do that matters.

That's a mighty handsom goat in your avatar there Len.

lendaddy · 07-26-2007, 08:32 AM

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Originally Posted by craigster59

Just remember, there is no "I" in threesome...

Rule #1 is: Never finish with the new girl.