I was once in bed with a female that was the last thing I'd ever chase for a ride under normal circumstances. I think it was a plot orchestrated by the other two I was in bed with. The other two was done before and this third was a cousin.

How do you screw dogma... long story

go figure..........

Yes, as a matter of fact I do. It is pathetic. And weak. Any guy that thinks with his d1ck to that extent is someone I have very little - if any - respect for. Are people seriously that incapable of thinking/acting without getting permission from their "little head" first? That's just idiotic. Yes, sex is fun and all but I can't/don't have much respect for people that have to go revolving their entire lives around it - especially when they have to resort to paying off sluts from CL just so they can blow a wad. Worst I ever did was go to a strip bar a few times. Whoopee. It's fun when you're in your 20s, but past a certain point you realize that you're "just another stupid guy" and the chicks making you shovel $20s into their shorts just so you can oogle at their titties are the ones laughing all the way to the bank - at the expense of morons who obviously don't value their money, which is not someone I aspire to be.

Christ, if you're that desperate go rub one out. Or go to a bar and pick someone up. Hell, even that's sleazy but it's less so than paying someone off the Internet. At least you (hopefully) get to carry on a conversation with them for a while or whatever beforehand.

I ain't a prude or whatever, but I'd have a hard time looking at myself in the mirror and believing I had any sort of self-respect if I actually had to pay some cum-dumpster for a thrill.

+1 Jeff

How do you get "desperate" out of my opinion? The truth is that I'm not even particularly interested in sex these days, I just don't agree that anyone who hires a hooker is a loser or a degenerate. You have some strange, angry reaction to the subject that is more revealing than you probably intend. Whatever, indeed...

Do you think hiring a hooker is healthy?

I found this on CL

she wants to hang at 911 meets






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Depends on many things, can't answer with a straight yes/no. I can certainly envision situations where it would not be, but it's not for me to judge. That's my point. I'm a libertarian when it comes to things like this, I think it should be legal. There are plenty of other vices which are not necessarily healthy that I also think should be legal and nobody's business but their own.

We all judge. It's what we do. Don't play it off as if there is some high ground to being non-judgemental. We all discern things about our environments and situations and make judgements all day long.

My comment wasn't about legality, so politics plays no role in my question.

Is hiring a hooker a healthy thing to do? It's a pretty simple question and really doesn't depend on much.

Don't duck the question. I'll understand if you don't want to answer. =)

I answered your question. If you don't like the answer or if it didn't satisfy you, try someone else. I don't think that it's a cut-and-dry moralistic dilemna, (not sure what you mean by "healthy"),and I judge plenty of things. Just not this.

Yes, it can be exceptionally healthy.

No, it could be a nightmare.

You decide.

We're all adults, and we all have to make adult decisions.

Hope this helps.

Is hiring a hooker healthy? I don't know, maybe for you. Maybe not for someone else. Maybe not for you either on the other hand. How's that for an answer?

I got the answer you want.... pour a beer on the other hand, get date drunk.

OK. If that happened to me, it's not like I wouldn't be flattered by the attention nor excited by the jump in hormones. Even though I'm a Christian, it's not a fear of God or some eternal punishment that would ultimately sway me, it would be expectation of what the knowledge of my potential actions would do to my wife. I can imagine the emotional pain and suffering that "a no-strings roll in the hay" would cause her. I couldn't do that to her. She and her relationship with me is too important to me. We've collectively put a lot into our 15 years of marriage. That means investing more than 15 years in trying to make each other happy. Doing something stupid like having "no-strings" fling would fly in the face of all of that.

BTW, aside from the philosophical question, I don't think that there is such a thing as "no strings". Even if the significant other doesn't explicitly find out, it doesn't cover up the fact that where previously there was openness, and trust -- there would now be hiding and secrecy. All of life's actions have ramifications that have to be lived with. Stuff like guilt, hiding and secrecy tends to be corrosive to relationships.

Aside from all of the emotional show-stoppers that I've mentioned earlier, be sure to re-read some of the earlier postings from guys getting divorces. It's a really ugly and expensive process where there really aren't any winners.

I hope that I never go there!

I don't think any one female has a patent on pussy. I would not pay for it outright. ( I guess I kind of do being married though, at least she has a job!).

Wasn't in the movie Pelican Brief that happliy married Tom Cruise get set up and get into some 'tang. A willing women and the right amount of rum and anything can happen.

Oooohhh.....
Bad word!!! Ban him!!!

It's fun to watch the little league guys play for free all of the time.
Every now and then you pay to see the pros.
Lighten up you guys!
:)

We ALL pay for sex, if we're having it, in some way or another.


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That shirt so doesn't apply in my household. :)

The secret that most men have never realized is that women get horny too. Holding out works equally well for us men.

Healthy for whom?

I believe that no woman that is selling her body is healthy, mentally. You can make light of that, but I believe it to be true and I wouldn't want to contribute to it.

As for the risks for men, they are well documented.

I know a woman who would rock your thought patterns on this. Generally speaking I would agree with you except.......for the exceptions.