Hey, man. Hats off! You gotta do what you gotta do to feel superior. :D

Went out to dinner last night, then dessert at home. In bed by 10 pm. Another morning of coffee on my back deck, then off to work. It is apparent wife is struggling with hgormonal changes, empty nest. She thanked me for being there. Now I'm gonna lay low for the next few days.

We're leaving (together) for a beach vacation this comming Sunday for a week.

Ditch the cell phones, unplug the hard line in the hotel room... Respond to fire alarms and nothing else.

Have a wonderful vacation Dueller. You deserve it.

angela

Geeez Sniper,

Why not just rub it in!!!;)

In not to long when I go out with a gal half my age she will be 30?????

Sucks to be me.:p

Yah...but think how much it must suck for the gal.:D:eek:

To go out with Snipe?:eek:

Superior, no.

DAMN lucky...YES!!!

If Dueller was hanging with me i'd do my best to get him one just as young and hot. Cause that's how i roll.

Haha, no, im 39 Angela. ;)

:D Leave some of the women around my age for me!

I had a feeling.

No problem, i have a hard enough time with one girl that age. My days of doing 2 or 3 at a time are over. ;)

(LOL, sorry, i couldn't help myself. We now return you to your regularly scheduled saga of love and loss)

dueller just remember that in a vacation/party atmosphere everything is better. it's when you come back home to reality that a relationship shows its true colors.

One thing that is abundantly clear from the last page of posts- Dueller is NOT the problem.
He is the victim.

+1

Wouldn't go thaT FAR, snipe. I certainly am part of what caused our relationship to get all cattywhumpus...but not the sole reason. I accept my mistakes and am correcting them. It is comforting to finally have her realize I am not the sole or even main cause.

As to your hijack....the last women I dated in the two years before my wife and I began dating were 22, 28, 29, 33 and 39. I was 47-49. So I know the fun that I can have...even without your help.;) FWIW mywife at 4 1/2 years my junior is the oldest and closest woman to my age I have been involved with in at least 30 years.

But eventually you have to talk to them. FWIW I'd put my wife up against 99% of women who are 35-40 on any level..

Understood. If you change your mind about some young female tail chasing with your buddy snipe, just let me know. :)

But i do think youre being way too hard on yourself, and i think youre being taken advantage of, and being made to suffer for her problems and insecurities and chemical imbalances.

Just got back from our mini-vacation. Everything went stellar. The cocktails and dancing to Al Greene naked on the first night away set the mood for the rest of the trip.;)


We've decided to sell the big house, buy a small beach house in the florida panhandle (Perdidio Key a/k/a the redneck riviera) and drop out. May not even tell the kids we've moved.:D

I've danced to Al in Perdido Key...slow, then slower.

Jim, I sincerely hope you can carry that over into daily life. Are you back together at home again?

great news...
alas..should we all ever met..
someone will play Mr Al Greene..
we will all stare at her..
D will turn red..mumble ..it's a long story..
and ask his lady for a dance..
Snipe will ask the waitress..' you got any tat's or piercing's '
get slapped..and then leave with someone's younger sister..

happy you had a good time..
you and her...
all other's should make an appointment..

Rika

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angela

You chose wisely.