Should I file a police report?

[Neilk]

Another plus for filing a police report is that if he abuses his g/f and she files a complaint, there will be multiple reports of him being abusive.

[Shaun @ Tru6]

WOW, I mean WOW!

I don't think I could have gotten better service from the Watertown Police Department than if I had just bought them all new squad cars, or gave all their kids a full season's worth of clothes.

Officer came in, interviewed me, took notes, he's going to call both of them and file an official report. He was very supportive of me as a small businessman and complimentary of the operation. He left me his card saying to call him any time and if he comes back, just dial 911 and they'll be here instantly.

Taxes well paid!

Thanks for the support gentlemen! Phew!

[rouxroux]

Is he Canadian?

[HHI944]

If he does that headbutt crap again: one hand on top of the other, do not interlock, on the back of his head, forearmsaround his neck, squeeze the elbows in. You're now free to land as many kicks to the groin, knees to the solar plexus as it takes. Just remember to keep your head to the side of his and not above. Basic krav maga clinch, very effective in this situation.

[HardDrive]

If it were me, I would have a pistol in my pocket/fannypack for the next couple weeks. Guy sounds unhinged.

[Racerbvd]

The moment he touched you, it went beyond a threat to assault...

[porsche4life]

Originally Posted by speedracing944

I am surprised he didn't accidently fall down the stairs. Although he may have tried to find something to sue about. Non-employees have no right to be on premises.

Document the situation. He might be back.

Speedy

No joke.... He woulda been picking himself up off the bottom landing if he'd done that to me...


But I do have a temper....

[Racerbvd]

Originally Posted by porsche4life

No joke.... He woulda been picking himself up off the bottom landing if he'd done that to me...


But I do have a temper....

When you arre a business owner, this doesn't work, at least not if there is anyone else around. Plus, Shaun doesn't have the benefit of having Gators around, but a bunch of hogs do a good job of disposing of trash as well..

[Rednine11]

You did the right thing. You need the history with the Police Dpt in case he comes back and you have to deal with it. I feel sorry for the girlfriend. he is probably abusing her at some level.

[Super_Dave_D]

Did you fire the temp?

[ODDJOB UNO]

Originally Posted by Shaun 84 Targa

boyfriend of temp worker comes in today with temp worker. In previous dialog last week, he wanted to join my company bringing graphic design to the table. I said we could talk in 2 weeks. I don't think he has much talent and would have let him down easy at that future discussion. He asked me again about it today and I said I don't think it will happen as I don't think we get along, pretty much exact quote. he then comes very close to me and starts to tell me he'll need a full accounting of his gf's hours by the end of the day (she's paid pretty much every other day, really needs the $) and leans into me like less than 2 inches from my face.

I told him he should leave. Shouting ensued (he didn't want to leave) as I led him to the doorway (second floor). He takes one step down and stops, now facing me, telling me I've got to turn away before he leaves, I haven't seen the last of him, etc. I tell him to leave or I will call the police. He leans into me and "softly headbutts" me, that is tries to push me away with his head. His gf is downstairs and shouting to leave. It may be of interest that yesterday she was doing a poor job and when I asked her if anything was wrong she broke into tears and said she's having a hard time at home (she lives with him).

When he pushed me away with his head, I walked away saying I'm calling the police. that was 20 minutes ago.

I think I handled getting him out of my offices well, I am very concerned about him coming back.

What should I do, if anything?

well how does ASSAULT sound? threatening intimidation harrassment????????



NO JUAN WILL EVER GET INTO MY SPACE LIKE THAT EV-VAR!



here where the deer elk the antelopezzzz and us hillbilly rednecks roam.............



well just read ARS(arizona revised statuates) chap 13.



get a restraining order light his dumb ass up and if he feeks with ya again..........well hes TOAST!



use the LAW!



BIG ASSED WHOOP ASS STICK = JUDGES GAVEL! my .000000002 centavos

[fastfredracing]

Good job, I would have called the police as well. Just make sure you keep looking over your shoulder for the next week or so, and make sure you have a game plan in case there is another episode.
Sure are some whacko's out there. Probably a meth head , who knows?
It would have been hard not to smack him right in the face, but restraint in a situation like this is always a good thing

[ODDJOB UNO]

NOT SCREWING A .45 into his mouth is whats CALLED RESTRAINT!


call the cops,make report, have cops check for wants and warrants on this idiot, get RESTRAINING ORDER! the best money ever spent and lasts longer than SEX..................like FOREVER if need be.



load gun, place in desk


load gun place in car


load gun place on hip

load gun place next to bed.



simple huh????????????????????

[TGTIW]

Build a wall, preferably out of cinderblock, paint it some shade of poo.

I would fire the temp as well. There are plenty of drama-free people that would probably appreciate a job out there.

[stomachmonkey]

Shaun did the right thing. There was only one other witness, d-bags girlfriend. I'm sure she would have been impartial.

[porsche4life]

Originally Posted by Racerbvd

When you arre a business owner, this doesn't work, at least not if there is anyone else around. Plus, Shaun doesn't have the benefit of having Gators around, but a bunch of hogs do a good job of disposing of trash as well..

I didn't say it was the right thing to do. Just what would have happened....


Oh and who wants to bet this guy was tweaked up?

[ODDJOB UNO]

heres some REAL STRONG ADVICE(ask me how i freeking know)...............



DOCUMENT EVERYTHING!


telephonic harrassment= 3 harrassing /threatening/intimidating calls in a 24 hour period. calls will obviously be on yer cell and yer cell bill.



have camera ready at all times.


try and have witnesses.always.


utilize co-werkers/neighbors blah blah.


the moment ya walk into a court "the he said /she said world) goes right out da window. you must have DOCUMENTATION of ALL THE GREAT OFFENDI'S ACTIONS.

[Scuba Steve]

Call the OMARS and get an RO from the local hottie judge. Grab the marbles before he does.

That's what I was thinking. Somebody on this board has a neighbor who I hear is a lawyer. You should ask them for references.

[ODDJOB UNO]

PRE EMPTIVE STRIKE HIS ASS! smoosh him into MUNG PIE(legally) EAT HIS LIVER!


FIRE HIS BEEEATCH!



WAR IS WAR!



numba juan rule of ZEN WARFARE......................KNOW THY ENEMY!

[Scooter]

Just to clarify:

Assault: v. the threat or attempt to strike another, whether successful or not, provided the target is aware of the danger.

Battery: n. the actual intentional striking of someone, with intent to harm, or in a "rude and insolent manner" even if the injury is slight.

You were both assaulted and battered.