Does Your Spouses (Sig Other)'s Past 'Experiences' Bother You?

[M.D. Holloway]

Like many of us we did not marry or date virgins. For the lucky ones, the past has helped establish a certain amount of talent per se.

Does your other's past explots bother you?

(attempted to edit 'There" to 'Their' but couldn't....get over it grammer boy!

[saxen]

no- but mine bother her.... and thats worse-

[McLovin]

The concept of that is completely foreign to me.

Why would it bother anyone? Particularly assuming both people had prior sexual experience.

[stealthn]

Why are you asking, seems like a stupid question to me....

[UconnTim97]

Nope. Her exes make me look like a hero. She dated a bunch of losers before me.

[recycled sixtie]

This lubey fellow asks the darndest questions. I am going to have to think about this one and get back to answering later.......
AKA grammar boy

[Rusty Heap]

Her Sister says I'm just as good as she was?

[widgeon13]

We don't talk about it.

[recycled sixtie]

No.

[M.D. Holloway]

Originally Posted by stealthn

Why are you asking, seems like a stupid question to me....

, sir, you don't know me well...in comparison to other questions I have asked over the past 50+ years, that is pretty low on the list of stupidity.

[Superman]

At my age, if I dismissed all the non-virgins, I would just be spanking the monkey in my basement. Oh wait.....

[M.D. Holloway]

A lot of guys married or date virgins! Hows that working out?

[BReif61]

Bother me? On the contrary; I appreciate them and all the little tricks she's learned along the way. Makes it a lot more fun for both of us.

[Iciclehead]

....I only wish she had skipped the story involving a donkey...

D.

[weseeeee]

Not at all.

[tweezers74]

Interesting question, Lubey. I always asked the men I dated how many women they slept with... Not that I really cared about the number but rather their reaction to the question. I preferred the men that didn't get all defensive about it and answered frankly. And then calmly turned the question to me, in which I always answered honestly.

Now to address the intent of your question, I don't really think the "experience" of a woman should be judged on the number of her partners. My reason for this is because, as you know, women operate very differently than men. On the whole, and I know you can't generalize to ALL women, but women tend to lose their inhibitions and are less conservative when they trust a man. So a woman may have had only one sexual partner her whole life but may be very adventuresome in the bedroom because she utterly trusts her partner and feels comfortable with him. I have had conversations with girlfriends who have had a plethora of partners but amazingly, their sex seems very "vanilla". They never get to that point in the relationship where they feel like they can be totally vulnerable. Married girlfriends seem to be more willing to try exciting things to keep it going. I think it can range all over the place. I think talented sexual skills is not a factor of the number of partners but rather the depth of trust in the relationship and the willingness of the person to truly get to know the wants and desires of their partner.

[TheMentat]

At my age, if I dismissed all the non-virgins, I would just be spanking the monkey in my basement. Oh wait.....

Here's a much more interesting question... What do you keep in your basement that excites you so much????

[GH85Carrera]

Originally Posted by UconnTim97

Nope. Her exes make me look like a hero. She dated a bunch of losers before me.

Same here.

[ledhedsymbols]

My wife was pretty uptight about it when we got together. I personally have never cared. As our relationship has matured, she has mellowed about it and is no longer an topic of conversation.

[fintstone]

Married the girl I dated in high school. No experience. It has worked out well for almost 37 years...can't predict the future but don't really see her lack of experience as an issue.