Another Teacher has Inappropriate Relations

[jamesnmlaw]

I hear the kid died from 'excessive high-fives".

[Macroni]

Lucky kid......

[911 Rod]

She's cute, but as she is 4'2", I'd say it would be a little kinky?

[mattdavis11]

News reports they did not have sex, and a 17yr alleges that she only felt the package. No article to back that up, just heard it on the local radio.

We shall see what comes of this, but her career in Lockhart is over. She should file a counter suit if she is innocent.

[M.D. Holloway]

Often in the case of strippers and hookers they were raped and or molested as a kid and often repeatedly. One would think that the idea of sex would be abhorrent but actually they feel that sex is no big deal and actually can have sex very often but without much care. Its actually a coping mechanism. As if to say "I'm not gonna think this matters because if I do I'm gonna get really bummed out over the fact that my uncle used to rape me...so its no big deal..."

That is the attitude. Not saying teach was a vic when she was young, just say'n why sex can be really meaningless to some folks.

[rockaria]

There are a lot of people jumping to conclusions without any facts. Kind of sad state the world has come to.

[fintstone]

Reportedly it is only illegal for a teacher to have sex with a student of legal age is if they are both student and teacher in the same district.

[dafischer]

Originally Posted by 911 Rod

She's cute, but as she is 4'2", I'd say it would be a little kinky?

4'2"? She's a true spinner!!

[Esel Mann]

Originally Posted by rockaria

There are a lot of people jumping to conclusions without any facts. Kind of sad state the world has come to.

I won't speak for others, but my meatplow doesn't know didley about conclusions and facts. It does know the prime directive...

[fintstone]

Maybe she is smiling in the photo because she is innocent. If so, she is likely contemplating the huge legal settlement she will receive.

According to Dallas-Fort Worth's KXAS, Fowlkes' attorney Jason Nassour said she was smiling because she knows she is innocent.

"You've got a young lady who was arrested on the statement of a 17-year-old kid with no corroborating evidence," Nassour told the station. "This isn't a guilty person sitting there like they just got caught. When everything's fleshed out it won't be as it appears."
Texas teacher Sarah Fowlkes smiling in mugshot because she knows she's innocent, says lawyer - Houston Chronicle

She would not be the first hot woman that someone claimed they got to 1st base with where it was just not true.

[Gogar]

Originally Posted by dafischer

4'2"? She's a true spinner!!

I'm going to go ahead and suggest she's 5'2".

[WPOZZZ]

Originally Posted by widebody911

Originally Posted by fintstone

[Don Ro]

Originally Posted by M.D. Holloway

Often in the case of strippers and hookers they were raped and or molested as a kid and often repeatedly. One would think that the idea of sex would be abhorrent but actually they feel that sex is no big deal and actually can have sex very often but without much care. Its actually a coping mechanism. As if to say "I'm not gonna think this matters because if I do I'm gonna get really bummed out over the fact that my uncle used to rape me...so its no big deal..."

That is the attitude. Not saying teach was a vic when she was young, just say'n why sex can be really meaningless to some folks.

In most instances, it's a matter of power for one and then a matter of using sex to overcome the fear of closeness, for the other.
WRT power, the victim identifies with the power of the offender, not the offender or the act, but the power of the offender. This is then acted out later as an attempt regain one's own sense of personal power, their personal power that was stripped from them during the original violation.
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WRT the fear of closeness, the victim will engage in sex as a way of being as close as possible to another w/o disclosing themselves. Sex becomes a substitute for true intimacy. Not so uncommon in the psych community as it's referred to as "Attachment Avoidant".
This is quite a prominent feature within the Borderline Personality Disorder structure...as they are known for engaging in impulsive and reckless behaviors such as casual unprotected sex with strangers.
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Both of the above can be present, in actuality.

[RKDinOKC]

Don't strippers all want to own their own hair salon and live in a mobil home?

[M.D. Holloway]

Originally Posted by Don Ro

In most instances, it's a matter of power for one and then a matter of using sex to overcome the fear of closeness, for the other.
WRT power, the victim identifies with the power of the offender, not the offender or the act, but the power of the offender. This is then acted out later as an attempt regain one's own sense of personal power, their personal power that was stripped from them during the original violation.
.
WRT the fear of closeness, the victim will engage in sex as a way of being as close as possible to another w/o disclosing themselves. Sex becomes a substitute for true intimacy. Not so uncommon in the psych community as it's referred to as "Attachment Avoidant".
This is quite a prominent feature within the Borderline Personality Disorder structure...as they are known for engaging in impulsive and reckless behaviors such as casual unprotected sex with strangers.
.
Both of the above can be present, in actuality.

Don,
Going into a particular ghost writing project several years ago (and my contract really forbids too much details or I could get sued and loose royalties - not that there is much) that the above statement is a psychologists statement and while I can see where it is an explanation, that interviews I did with a bunch of these women both strippers, hookers and non-adult women who had been molested (and no I didn't do any hookers!) all indicated what I found to be true. I didn't lead the question merely asked open ended questions and let them talk in a relaxed, comfortable environment. And the vast majority had trust issues that would put a cage fought pitbull to shame.

[M.D. Holloway]

Originally Posted by RKDinOKC

Don't strippers all want to own their own hair salon and live in a mobil home?

some do, some want to meet a 'nice guy' and settle down while others want to have professional jobs in marketing, sales and the like. Surprisingly there are more 'normal' girls into then you would think. Not all are TPT but most all do drugs and all were molested. Its actually sad. I can't go into those clubs anymore and not look at these women as pure sex objects. As corny as it may sound, after hearing many of their stories, I find these places very depressing because I know that these girls really don't want this life style. They happened upon it for a few reasons and it engulfed them.

[asphaltgambler]

^^^^^^only thing more depressing than the 'clubs' is living with a couple of them.....................at different times - there is no 'normal'......^^^^^^

[matthewb0051]

Originally Posted by mattdavis11

We shall see what comes of this, but her career in Lockhart is over.

No doubt. Lockhart is a very small town, it still has a hanging tree outside of the courthouse, seriously.

I have relatives that live there and I'm trying to get the scoop on what their take is on this and get a description of the local gossip.

MTF (hopefully)

The tree is around back.

[RKDinOKC]

Well then, maybe it's just the Oklahoma strippers.

[Gogar]

"Stripper" is a symptom of a mindset. Hairdresser, massage therapist . . just variations on a theme for women in their early '20s.


An equivalent for men in their late '30s early '40s is when they all try to be real estate agents for a year or so and give up.


Sorry to drift off topic.