Dick move or not?

[Steve Carlton]

He didn't get a chance. He got tricked by the dick.

[-Levi-]

Not a dick move

[Baz]

Originally Posted by unclebilly

Agreed.

I'm the guy who helps out everyone at the track. Maybe I be more selective from this point on... I know who scooped it and it's a small club.

Originally Posted by herr_oberst

Isn't that always the case. You try and be the stand up guy and put the big picture ahead of needs of the individual (or the self) and the ONE TIME you'd like something to work in your favor, you're made to feel bad about the whole thing.

Life. It's not for pussies.

Quote:
"No Good Deed Goes Unpunished."
~ Bazza

[winders]

Originally Posted by Steve Carlton

I'm a believer in "you dance with the one that brung you." There's such a thing as honor and integrity.

Honor and integrity? There was not deal in place so how could someone's honor and integrity be challenged here? Based on the facts presented, this is an example of "you snooze you lose".

Posting an ad saying you want to buy something is a far cry from committing to buying something. Calling you in answer to a wanted ad is a far cry from committing to selling something to you. This whole thread is ludicrous.

[winders]

Originally Posted by Steve Carlton

I hate to say this winders, but it's guys like you that is what's wrong with this world.

Really? You don't know me from Adam. So you really have no idea what you are talking about.

As this "situation" was laid out, the seller did nothing even remotely close to wrong unless he left a message saying the OP had X amount of time get back to him before he sold it.

Let's say there had been 5 wanted ads for a transponder. Some guy wakes up and sees the 5 ads and places calls to all 5 guys. Not a single one answers so he leaves them messages. The 4th guy he called calls back, they agree to a price, and the deal is done. Did the seller shaft guys 1, 2, and 3?

If you say yes, it is guys like you that is what's wrong with there world.

[Steve Carlton]

Dude- the buyer did the dick move, not the seller. It doesn't appear the seller knew he was dealing with anyone other the the OP. If he had, and sold it to the buyer, then I'd say he's a dick as well.

In your 5 wanted ad scenario, all were responded to so fair is fair- first come, first served. The OP was skated by the buyer. He poached the opportunity offered by the OP himself.

I'm sorry winders, but your logic has been twisted and half-baked in this thread. Your analogies don't illustrate the situation.

[BK911]

No doubt... dick move 100%.
Dude snaked your potential deal.

[wayner]

That's why I always jump right in quickly with the right money and few questions when I see a fit
Thanks Neil the deal has been sealed I never see it as mine

...unless something seems fishy, then I'll risk losing out

[1990C4S]

Change your signature:

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But no transponder

He's a dick, forget about it. He should have given you a few hours to call.

[cashflyer]

It's really just a matter of perspective.

[matthewb0051]

My mother always told me to not call people at home before 9 am and after 9 pm.

Outside of those hours it must be an emergency.

Other than that: Dick move for sure.

[ficke]

Not a dick move by seller just naïve and a little bit clumsy.
Sorry, I believe the OP is making the Dick move here for getting upset over timing and this is one of the reasons I never respond to WTB ads as a seller.
I let the buyers call me and sell to the first one with money.
Then these kind of things do not happen.

[wdfifteen]

Not knowing more about the circumstances, I would say not a dick move. You are possibly just a victim of circumstance/timing.
Be disappointed, not angry.

[stomachmonkey]

I'm one of the moderators for our developments facebook classifieds page.

All those types of pages run on the same basic principal.

You post a WTB or for sale ad.

First one to respond with interest is first in line.

All subsequent interested parties are next in line based on the order of posting. The most common expression of interest for anyone other than the first is "next".

All interested parties, responders, are given at least 12 hours to engage the OP and arrange for the transaction because life.

If interested party does not respond the OP can move onto the next.

It's fair and prevents people turning it into ebay.

Common courtesy.

The guy who bought the part was able to because Unclebilly put out the feeler. Unclebilly created the opportunity and the buyer cut the line.

Dick move.

[wildthing]

Your FB page must have some policy of some sort. But I don't think it's universal.

One other possibility is that the seller actually has a for sale ad somewhere else, you just didn't see it.

The additional part about the buyer posing as you is a dick move.

[berettafan]

OP I had the same experience however it was looking for a primo longhood tub.

turned me into a mini PWD72S for some time.


so yes, I would say it is a dick move. the proper third party response, IMO, is 'hey poster can I be next in line if he passes?'

[stomachmonkey]

Originally Posted by wildthing

Your FB page must have some policy of some sort. But I don't think it's universal.

One other possibility is that the seller actually has a for sale ad somewhere else, you just didn't see it.

The additional part about the buyer posing as you is a dick move.

Unless the mods are masochists Garage Sale / Classifieds FB pages do have written / posted rules.

And they are typically consistent.

In my area there are a half dozen pages covering adjacent or overlapping towns.

The other consistent rule is if you post the same item on more than one of the pages you must clearly indicate the item is Cross Posted to avoid drama when someone claims an item on one page while it was claimed earlier on another.

The rules grew organically and are universally understood and generally adhered to (by non dicks) whether a page posts them or not.

Pages that don't follow "the established norm" make PARF look like a bible study group.

[stomachmonkey]

Originally Posted by berettafan

.....the proper third party response, IMO, is 'hey poster can I be next in line if he passes?'

This

[Baz]

Reminds me of eBay postings which have disclaimers that the item is also listed locally and a local sale could be grounds to end the auction early.

Can't remember what implications are if there are bids on the item or if there is a reserve that has yet to be met....but I do like the idea of a disclaimer in order to minimize misunderstandings.

[lendaddy]

I can't believe people think the seller did anything wrong. He called the potential buyer but he didn't answer...on to the next man with cash. Selling stuff sucks enough as it is and flakey buyers are everywhere, he's a stand up guy for making the initial effort.

From what I gathered the seller may have had the unit up for sale elsewhere, with those ads come other implied obligations to act appropriately. Is he supposed to deny sale to a buyer responding to his ad until he hears back from a potential buyer that posted a wanted ad (but didn't answer his phone call)? How long should he deny sale to the first party? Maybe I'm reading too much into it, seems too simple to me.