[RKDinOKC]

I remember being very young and having a lot of energy, but also behaving and sitting quietly when visiting unless told to go outside and play. Parents visited friends and relatives a LOT. And it was not fear of punishment. Learned very early that you got rewarded when you were on your best behavior. One friend of my parents always somehow came up with some home made southern fried chicken tenders and gravy wnen we visited. like most of their friends and kin they kids were either away in college or married.