As a single, financially independent, stable man (or about to be), You are a RARE commodity and about to be seriously contested over by the "she-critters" .
Take it slow, enjoy the ride(s) and don't do anything rash.............
You will be astounded as to the extent single females will go to compete with each other for the "ultimate" prize. Just let them do it..........
Play the field, and NEVER, EVER let one move in with you............ EVERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!
