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Originally Posted by VINMAN
Wow... some judgemental dudes on here.
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Just one dude.
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Originally Posted by Evans, Marv
Oh, & edit: Sex can be fun your you, but for lots of women it means a permanent relationship.
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es Verdat
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Originally Posted by IROC
My plan is to focus on me (and my kids) and not worry about anything else. I have zero desire to date at this point. Maybe in 6 months or a year. My fear is what Norm wrote above - I won't even be looking for something and I will meet somebody.
We'll see. I am not interested right now. I spent the last 2+ years bending over backwards to make this work and I am emotionally worn out.
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It is Mike time, savor it.
Things happen when it is time for them to happen. When it comes, it will be like a bolt of lightning, you'll see.
Sounds like you have both your feet on the ground already.
I married and divorced at a young age. She was pretty horrible for a while about taking the kids out of town when I came to visit. I explained how expensive it would be if she did it again, so that stopped, but she continued to trash me, no doubt. I told wife #2 that the ex would get them for their childhood, I would get them as adults. Turned out just like that. When I met the young lady who my son married, the four of us sat and talked for hours, literally When they left, she said, "You are nothing like I thought you would be." I thanked her, then when they were gone, asked the wife what that was all about. "Who do you think told her about you."
I never talked bad about the ex in front of the kids, and forbid my family from expressing their opinions of her in front of the kids. Neither the son-in-law or daughter-in-law want anything to do with the ex, but love the current wife, go figure.
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Originally Posted by Gretch
As a single, financially independent, stable man (or about to be), You are a RARE commodity and about to be seriously contested over by the "she-critters" .
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No doubt