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Originally Posted by Dixie

Because of her attitude with how she's asking. It's like it's personal. I asked my neighbor, the retired cop, and he says if they thought I was shoplifting they wouldn't be asking. They'd already have it on camera. He said the employee is probably on a bit of a power trip and is over performing their job.

I'm going to ask to speak with the security manager next time I go shopping. Not to get the employee in trouble, but so we can all deescalate the situation.

And you're exacerbating the situation. If you hadn't ever given her any crap, it would likely be over by now. She's on a power trip, and you're on a control trip.