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The system is stacked against the dad. Even the child support system is stacked lopsided. I read a story about a guy who was paying child support for years, then a DNA test determined the kid wasn't his.... but the court ordered him to continue paying child support.

Personally, I wouldn't want to 'tango' with a woman whom I was not in a relationship with, or didn't want to be in a relationship with. I just wouldn't want to deal with the consequences. And if I were in a relationship with a woman, and we had an 'oops', we would handle it. WE would decide what to do. I'd like to make that clear before we ever encountered an 'oops'.