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Originally Posted by masraum
Now for the next chapter. He sent me a text a little bit ago asking me to bring his meds, tax forms, and check book to the city jail so he can bail himself out. I'm not sure what he did. I wonder if he tried to shoplift some liquor or what. I'm going to call and find out now.
The saga continues....  |
Sorry to hear this. I know it will be tough, but do just exactly that and NO MORE. Drop the stuff off and leave. And change the locks. While he might not have had the foresight to make copies of the keys you'll never know. The minute he became abusive he crossed the line imho and you need to take care of yourself and your wife first and foremost.
Have you had a proper consult with his shrink?
Also, if he wants to meet to talk do it in a public place and not at your house. Again, he went over the line and it no longer is his home. I think that line needs to be drawn strongly, and if there is to be any movement you need to establish the ground rules along the lines of meds/therapy, completely clean/sober, regular job, etc along with a timeline for him to get his own place. I think most everyone deserves a "final" chance but it needs to be made clear that it in fact is the last one.