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My brother dated an old HS girlfriend. She had what I thought was a son and daughter in their 20s living with her. Later my brother found the "son" was an xbf of the daughter. This guy wasn't getting in the way of the daughter dating, but he was still living there like a son, bringing girls home for the night and all.

This "son" was a skate boarding doper drunk. He always getting in trouble, couldn't keep a job, always wrecking his cars, and even pissed his bed. The mom and grand mother were buying him cars and fixing the ones he wrecked. They forced the daughter, whom was working at good job paying for her own car, give him her car so he could go to work/party and she had to find her own way. They didn't help her at all, or even pay to fix her car when the xbf wrecked it. The dad was a deadbeat. The daughter had moved out and back several times but the bf stayed.

For 3 years after my brother stopped dating the Mom, the daughter would come by and visit my brother. She was moved out what she considered permanently and the xbf as still living with her Mom.