[aigel]

Do you drink when you go out together? Maybe she has to stay away from the environment 'til she is solidly dry. I have some friends that I'd definitely put in the "enabler" category, if it comes to drinking. If I was going to AA, going out with them definitely would be a no-go for a while.

Edit: If you think this may be the case, call her and tell her of course you can do stuff that works for her AA program, including you staying dry during your activities.

G