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Originally Posted by LeeH
At the advice of my brother, I went on Meet Up right after she left. I tripped across a divorce support group that was meeting at a restaurant 10 minutes away that very evening. I argued with myself for a long time before I finally made the trip to the car and drove over. BEST thing I could have done. The group really got me through the hard part via support, camaraderie, and a whole bunch of new friends who'd already been where I was and where I was going. Cool thing is that I know I have made lifelong friends from the group. We get together for hikes, dinners, etc. Divorce is rarely a topic of conversation unless someone just needs to vent.
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Good for you to muster the energy to go.
Nature takes care of seekers...you've been rewarded.
I was engaged 20 yrs. ago. My fiance had an affair. Initially, I fell off the floor...the pain, the fear, the loss, etc.
It turned out to be the #1 defining moment in my life...among many others down on the list.
That event laid the ground work and defined my maturation.
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