need advice guys...(long)

BRPORSCHE · 08:55 PM

situation:
Me and this girl dated for 9 months. She broke up with me the day before our 9 month. Started seeing another guy the very next day. Was kind of cheating, but not really. He is a senior so he decides that he doesn't want to start anything serious before he goes off to college. She calls me up 5 days later. Can we go out? We start going out, break up after a few days on the july, 4.

About a month later me and her start to become very good friends again, and are very much so considered friends with benefits by this point. She starts talking to another guy, this guy is the shiznit...fast car ('98 supra TT), brand new Z-71, money coming out of his a$$, and he races dirtbikes. Ultimate chick magnet. They start dating and I totally disappear. I leave the state for a few days, I come home and she calls me crying. I told her that now it was fair, and we got in a big fight, which ended up by me asking her out. "No."

Since then we have been talking every night, and are now very much so friends with benefits. I went out and bought her a IPOD mini and she absolutely loved it. I slept over her house when rita came ashore. That is about all I can say about that night....

Today it was 3 months exactly since we broke up. And it would of been our 1 year. the varsity football game was pushed back to tonight because of the hurricane. I had a decision to make, LSU game or h/s game. I chose the h/s game and she didn't know it. During her half time routine i left a simple daisy on her bag, along with the ipod. She immediatley knew it was me and started looking for me. Tonight I asked her out...again. But tonight I got. "Yes." But now i don't know what to do. I know things are goign to be different.

thanks for the advice in advance guys, I just have been through so much crap I just don't know what to do.

Mulhollanddose · 09:10 PM

99% of the time, you stick it in before getting married, it is over...If you just want to stick it in, have fun...Don't expect anything lasting out of this one, especially with the rollercoaster she currently has you on.

BRPORSCHE · 09-26-2005, 09:11 PM

nah haven't had sex...we are both catholic...and she is very, very catholic...so yeah no sex.

Mulhollanddose · 09:21 PM

Good...Now just take it slow. She already has a couple strikes against her, so treat her as a friend, enjoy each-other's company and see where it goes.

edit: Don't play head games, and DO NOT allow her to play head games on you...If she does want to play head games (women naturally do) put your foot down and if she persists, show her the door real quick like!...It is not...I REPEAT...IS NOT...worth the pain in the ass.

RANDY P · RANDY P's Garage

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Originally posted by BRPORSCHE
nah haven't had sex...we are both catholic...and she is very, very catholic...so yeah no sex.

Whoa. This is way too much crap for what you're (or not) getting. You must be the only one willing to put up with that BS.

The other guys (like motocross boy) know this, so should you. Toss her on her a$$. If she comes back, hit it.

rjp

Victor · 09-27-2005, 01:15 AM

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Originally posted by RANDY P
Whoa. This is way too much crap for what you're (or not) getting. You must be the only one willing to put up with that BS.

The other guys (like motocross boy) know this, so should you. Toss her on her a$$. If she comes back, hit it.

rjp

You took the words right outta my mouth........must have been while you where.....WHOA! Better stop there, enough with the Meatloaf already.

BRPORSCHE- you are being had. That's not to say there is anything wrong with that. It happened to all of us old bastards when we where young(er).

johnco · 09-27-2005, 03:32 AM

Tom, you're what? 16-18? forget about her and go out and have some fun with your friends. you've got plenty of time to to be screwed over by women. ignore her and see how she starts chasing you. if not you'll end up like the guy that used to work for me. he got married at 18, now he's about 25 and has 3 kids and an ignorant wife. 2 kids aren't even his. they were fathered by 2 of his friends while he was off working to support what he thought was his family. I tried to warn him. he's never been anywhere, done anything, but now he has lost his chance at ever being happy. there's plenty of other women out there. especially at your age

cool_chick · 09-27-2005, 03:42 AM

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Originally posted by Mulhollanddose
Good...Now just take it slow. She already has a couple strikes against her, so treat her as a friend, enjoy each-other's company and see where it goes.

edit: Don't play head games, and DO NOT allow her to play head games on you...If she does want to play head games (women naturally do) put your foot down and if she persists, show her the door real quick like!...It is not...I REPEAT...IS NOT...worth the pain in the ass.

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Listen to him BRPORCHE

Seriously, there are so many other wonderful girls out there that would die for the chance to put you first......

And mul, not all women "naturally play head games." At least this one doesn't.

johnco · 09-27-2005, 03:55 AM

one day you'll be singing this song to her..." I gave you all my money, what more can I do?' (chorus) "go get some more, go get some more"

slakjaw · 09-27-2005, 04:39 AM

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Listen to him BRPORCHE

Seriously, there are so many other wonderful girls out there that would die for the chance to put you first......

And mul, not all women "naturally play head games." At least this one doesn't.

Yeah, Whatever, Cool Chick!! LMAO

cool_chick · 09-27-2005, 04:50 AM

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Originally posted by slakjaw
Yeah, Whatever, Cool Chick!! LMAO

You don't think there are other women dying for the chance to put him first?

slakjaw · 09-27-2005, 05:03 AM

Seriously, there are so many other wonderful girls out there

Seriously, there are so many WACKO girls out there you better get used to it.

And mul, not all women "naturally play head games."

your right cool chick not ALL woman play head games. Only 99.99997% of them do. Another thing that he better get used to.

cool_chick · 09-27-2005, 06:29 AM

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Originally posted by slakjaw
Seriously, there are so many other wonderful girls out there

Seriously, there are so many WACKO girls out there you better get used to it.

And mul, not all women "naturally play head games."

your right cool chick not ALL woman play head games. Only 99.99997% of them do. Another thing that he better get used to.

Well, I don't know what to say. I'm of the belief that no one can do anything to you without your consent.

Vipergrün · 09-27-2005, 06:38 AM

Dood, you need to listen to Tom Lykus. Take a visit to blowmeuptom.com You are too young for this stuff.

BRPORSCHE · 09-27-2005, 06:47 AM

sorry I wasn't able to get back sooner, but now I am on my study hall (one of them). After last night I thought if it didn't work then I would just walk away from the situation. I was more expecting her to just say "no" as usual. But she said "yes" and I wasn't prepared for it. All of my friends have been calling me a retard today. I know I have plenty of time left in life for other girls, and I really hope that I can get out of this one with my bank account still semi intact. wanna buy some sparco seats for the '73....

targa911S · 09-27-2005, 06:51 AM

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Originally posted by BRPORSCHE
nah haven't had sex...we are both catholic...and she is very, very catholic...so yeah no sex.

My how things have changed. We always wanted to find those Catholic school girls on friday nights. They were SO easy.

BRPORSCHE · 09-27-2005, 06:55 AM

Well this one way home schooled k-8th. And then she went to a large high school where I met her freashmen year. I left and went to LSU's lab school...and a year ago exactly we started dating. Trust me it is hard...very, very hard to break in a home school girl. Patience is a virtue.

1967 R50/2 · 09-27-2005, 06:56 AM

Run.

Not worth it.

When you find somebody who genuinely appreciates you, you will realize: "Why was I wasting my time????"

Rot 911 · 09-27-2005, 06:58 AM

The vote is 12-0 that you run. This girl has some serious maturity problems. Run.

ronin · 09-27-2005, 07:01 AM

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Originally posted by BRPORSCHE
nah haven't had sex...we are both catholic...and she is very, very catholic...so yeah no sex.

not with you anyway