Pussywhipped

[Baz]

Pussywhipped: when a man loses his testicles to his woman.

All men who wish to have any form of relationship (or just get laid) must be pussywhipped to a certain degree. The minor offenders are never called pussywhipped, only the men who allow their woman to walk all over them and totally control every aspect of their life (even if the woman is not in the same state at the time).

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I know men like this....cannot make any decision without approval.

"I'll have to check with the boss."

"She's giving me a funny look so I better go."

"I can't (insert activity here) and leave her alone...we do everything together."

[Evans, Marv]

Sez the single guy sitting in his recliner.

[VINMAN]

I have to ask my wife if I can respond to this..



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[GH85Carrera]

Happy wife = happy life. To some extent. For spending money on my car hobby I ask no permission at all. I do spend what I want. Even for the engine rebuild or suspension refresh.

Only if it is part of the house or something that involves her directly.

[WPOZZZ]

My gf said to tell you she lol'd.

[LWJ]

And my single friends drink alone....

[Rodsrsr]

Originally Posted by Evans, Marv

Sez the single guy sitting in his recliner.

Men should never shame other men for being single. In todays culture many men simply choose to be alone and focus on improving themselves, becoming the best version of themselves they can be. You don't need a woman to accomplish this.

Google MGTOW and learn about the modern 2021 woman. You'll quickly see why lots of guys are simply checking out.

[wdfifteen]

I'm sorry you feel that way Baz. You are missing a lot.
I was single until I was 43. Then I tried marriage, but it was a lot like you describe. We were two people who didn't want to give anything up. I was single again for 15 years.
Then I met MrsWD.
Let me tell you - one person alone is always one person.
Two people living a collaborative life together is far more that two people. Way more than the sum of its parts. A loving relationship does not subtract from you - it adds to you.
It's impossible to describe it to someone who sees life as a series of competitions.

[Baz]

Like many things in life one size doesn't fit all.

So not trying to paint with a broad brush either those who have a significant other in their life or those who are solo.

The most important thing is what makes you happy.

I guess the point of my post is I know some guys who seemingly turned in their man card long ago. Their entire life is centered around their significant other to the point where they may as well have dropped off the face of the planet.

I had a very very good friend of mine who got married and things began to change, of course, which is natural. But once they had a kid it really changed. Anytime you called his house she would answer the phone:

"What do you want.......Randy's busy."

So for many years afterward....we didn't see much of Randy. Not liked we used to.

To each their own but to let your significant other take over your entire life....I dunno.....seems a bit sad to me.

[Rodsrsr]

[onewhippedpuppy]

Ugh, not another one of THESE threads....

I know happy and lonely single people. I know happy and lonely married people. Figure out what makes you happy, then do that. It’s really quite simple. I’m lucky to be one of the happy and married guys. And I consider myself to be only moderately pussy whipped.

[wdfifteen]

Originally Posted by Baz

So not trying to paint with a broad brush either those who have a significant other in their life or those who are solo.

If it was not your goal you failed miserably, because you smeared us all with a pretty broad brush.
This does not seem typical of you.

[Baz]

Originally Posted by wdfifteen

If it was not your goal you failed miserably, because you smeared us all with a pretty broad brush.
This does not seem typical of you.

I can understand how you misunderstood my post.

No worries.....

[Esel Mann]

lol, baz, wednesday evening is tough at peanuts. that's when the mood sharks come out .
wait til thirsty thursday, it'll get better. promise!

[Baz]

Originally Posted by onewhippedpuppy

Ugh, not another one of THESE threads....

I know happy and lonely single people. I know happy and lonely married people. Figure out what makes you happy, then do that. It’s really quite simple. I’m lucky to be one of the happy and married guys. And I consider myself to be only moderately pussy whipped.

I too know both happy and unhappy people.

Some still have their testicles.....some don't.

[Baz]

Originally Posted by Esel Mann

lol, baz, wednesday evening is tough at peanuts. that's when the mood sharks come out .
wait til thirsty thursday, it'll get better. promise!

LOL......no worries........it's just a talk forum. Everyone is entitled to their opinion(s).

[wdfifteen]

Originally Posted by Baz

I can understand how you misunderstood my post.
No worries.....

I read and speak English pretty well. You said, "All men who wish to have any form of relationship (or just get laid) must be pussywhipped to a certain degree." How is it my failure to understand your post? You think because I am in a marriage I am to some extent subservient to my wife. It seems pretty clear to me.

[Por_sha911]

Never take financial advice from someone who is broke.
Likewise, I rarely listen to marital advice from divorced/single people nor will should someone take single life opinions from happily married folks.
The problem is that either side has skewed perceptions based on their personal experience and tend to apply the opinion to all the other different situations. A person whose spouse cheated on them will tend to believe that all folks of the opposite sex cannot be trusted.

[Bugsinrugs]

I still have my balls... I’m holding them right now. That being said I make very few decisions without consulting my wife.

[peppy]

I was *****ing the tree limbs to the road today while my wife ran the chain saw! I will now squat to pee....