Would you help someone cheat on their spouse?

[djmcmath]

Ok, so after 4 pages of discussion, most of us agreed that we wouldn't cheat. Nobody came right out and admitted to having cheated, because we all know that's about the dirtiest thing you can do.

So the follow-on question, for those of you who said they would not, themselves, cheat: assume that you're single, and she's married (or he, if that's your liking). The husband is military, and is currently off at the "tip of the spear" making Afghanistan safe for Democracy. If she was amenable to the idea of cheating on her spouse, would you cheat with her? What if she was blatantly lying about having a husband, but it was utterly transparent -- "No, I don't have a husband. Uh, those pictures of that guy? Uh, he's my uh ... brother!" What if she came right out and said that she had a husband, loved him dearly, but needed some comfort while he was away?

So, of those who wouldn't cheat, would you cause someone else to cheat?

Dan

[dhoward]

Only if I could watch....

[cantdrv55]

Not me. What goes around, comes around.

[Joeaksa]

Have you ever seen what a really pissed off woman can do???



Its not worth it... if someone wants to cheat then do it, but there is no reason to involve anyone else in the mess.

Joe

PS if it was the wife of a solder serving overseas or someone I knew wanting to "party" with the wife of a solder and I got any idea of what was going on, a "slight discussion" would be held. Been there, done that and its not going to happen on my watch.

The last thing anyone needs to happen is to be "in harms way" and be worried about your lady sitting at home, the one you are risking your life for...

[RANDY P]

Assuming that you're not just thinking about sex and nothing else - you walk away and she can't find you? Well maybe.

If she blatantly lied about her marital status and it's too late well, never call back.

Biggest question is, is that if you think you're starting a new relationship what happens to you when you are no longer the flavor of the month?
Think about it. Both you and her hubby are being made into a couple of a-holes if you start this mess. Why risk it, for HER emotional benefit? What do you think she tells him when she's home talking to him or whatever Do you want to be a part of that? Believe me, it's not a good feeling.

If some chick told me she loved her husband but just wanted sex simply walking away would be the nicest thing I'd do.

It's a self - respect thing you know..

rjp



rjp

[pwd72s]

Why all this interest in cheating??? Hey, I know...maybe I'll start another poll?

[cantdrv55]

Originally posted by pwd72s
Why all this interest in cheating??? Hey, I know...maybe I'll start another poll?

The elections are way over and it's just time to move on to another controversial, provocative topic.

[asphaltgambler]

Ok. I've done it. While married. I had all the answers why it was OK. Ended up in a bad position financially and emotionally. Still thought it was OK.


Round 2: A few years later, a few years wiser (hopefully) Divorce under my belt, was soon tired of the woman I cheated with. She turned out to be a real nut-case; emotionally unstable. Single again.

With my newfound perspective on life, love and women in genral. I meet someone. I fall in love. She moves in. After over a year of living together decide that she is the one. Propose because I thought I could'nt live w/o her. Get engaged. Set date.

Round 3: Find out later after we had made many financial comittments that there appearently other guys could'nt live w/o her either.
I was just the evening/weekend shift. I now was on the other side-o-the equation. I'm engaged to my alter-ego!! She ended up with the house that 'we' just purchased. I'm now back to how I was post divorce. Don't think I'm ready for round 4.