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Yeah, I really think success traits are genetic, not learned. I think of a friend who was the leader from elementary school, high school quarterback, enlisted, made flight school and was up for admiral. As soon as you met him you knew. Same for a boss I had a few years ago who is now VP of Lockheed where I work. As soon as you spent a few hours with him, you knew he was going places. Now perhaps the years of success reinforce these traits but I think the traits are innate to start with.
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It has everything to do with the expectation of being bailed out by a government that will give them someone else's money if they squander their own....just to buy their vote for a lifetime.
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![]() I don't believe it's genetic or environmental. My daughter (who drives a Mercedes) laughed when I bought a Hyundai SUV. "Dad, you could afford the Cayenne. Why did you buy this POS?" "Sweety, the Hyundai came with a better CD; about $40,000 worth." Sounds better than Bose to me ![]()
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Now, some folks would scoff and cast aspersions about this person's lifestyle. I couldn't help thinking that a shoebox house and superb TV probably makes a lot of sense for some folks. Life is not a contest. And another thing that's hard to grok: There is the joke about the aliens that come down to talk to us, and want to hear our views about Free Will. They'd heard of this, and wonder what the heck we might mean by that term. They say they understand genes and heredity. And they understand how experience combines with heredity to lead to a particular behavior or decision. No problem there. But then what, aside from heredity and environment, could impact or program and human's behavior. Or any other creature for that matter.
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Sorry I missed all the fun after my post...lots of good discussion going on...
Cam: I didn't say people were genetically inferior, that would be Steve. Look to him to support his argument, not me. Steve: You asked for the prototypical conservative response...I'm not sure I can give that because I don't think I'm the prototypical conservative. But, I will give you MY response: I don't think that people who don't succeed in America are genetically inferior to those that do. That is just another in the long line of excuses that make up the "victim generation". I can't get ahead because I'm poor, I can't get ahead because I'm black, I can't get ahead because I'm gay, I can't get ahead because the gubmint won't give me my welfare, I can't get ahead because my daddy left me when I was young, I can't get ahead because I'm short, or tall, or fat, or thin, or whatever. It's all a bunch of crap. Are certain people born with advantages? Absolutely. No doubt. Is it harder for people who come from tough situations to make it? Yes. Without a doubt. Is that an EXCUSE for never doing anything with your life? HELL NO. Case in point. I met a congressman from Illinois (I believe) about 3 years ago in D.C. He was speaking at the church my father attends. After his speech, I was able to talk with him (he is a black Democrat, by the way). The man was born in rural Alabama to a share-cropper. He had to WALK 5 miles to school every day (each way) and sit in an unairconditioned schoolhouse in the Alabama heat. His family did not have a dime to their name. Guess where he is now? He is a college graduate, a law school graduate and a US Congressman. So please get off the idea that some people are born to fail and it's up to the rest of us to support these poor, downtrodden, GENETICALLY INFERIOR (your words, not mine)members of our society. In a country where someone can come up with a PET ROCK and make millions, I think there is plenty of opportunity for hard working people, even if they don't meet your definition of the "successful" person. Ever watch the show American Chopper? How about Monster Garage? I don't think Paul Sr. would fare very well in a classroom or in some upper management position. But the guy is a multi-millionaire from making custom motorcycles with his hands. I think that social security is a good thing. I think that short-term programs to help those that have lost their jobs is a good thing. I think that programs to try and give the less fortunate a help up is a good thing. I think institutionizing poverty in the form of welfare and making a large percentage of our population dependent on the gubmint for their daily bread is a BAD THING. I believe in a hand UP, not a hand OUT. BTW, it's very refreshing to see a debate thread that hasn't yet mentioned the I**q word...
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I need to carify. I believe we are the sum of probabilities. We have physical, mental, personality, etc. traits that span the spectrum. On each trait we fall somewhere on the curve and in summation we do the best we can with what we have to start with. Some have attributes that make success rather easy. Corporations look for those traits in young hires and then funnel them into special management programs that quickly reward them financially. Some have traits that don’t work in corporate America but they blossom in their own environment. Your example of Paul is good. But as you also note some have disadvantages which require extra work to overcome. “Are certain people born with advantages? Absolutely. No doubt. Is it harder for people who come from tough situations to make it? Yes. Without a doubt. Is that an EXCUSE for never doing anything with your life? HELL NO.” I don’t think it is an excuse either. Everyone should do the best they can. I am saying that we should not be surprised that some cannot make it and I would attribute that to a innate trait, genetics. I know some are born with a number of innate traits on the far side of the curve that will preclude them from being successful, whether financially, emotionally, or in relationships. Some of these traits from both sides of the curves can be seen in direct parents and some seemingly come out of nowhere. “I don't think that people who don't succeed in America are genetically inferior to those that do. That is just another in the long line of excuses that make up the "victim generation". I can't get ahead because I'm poor, I can't get ahead because I'm black, I can't get ahead because I'm gay, I can't get ahead because the gubmint won't give me my welfare, I can't get ahead because my daddy left me when I was young, I can't get ahead because I'm short, or tall, or fat, or thin, or whatever. It's all a bunch of crap.” No one should use their current state to define their future. I agree that leads to the “poor me” attitude. But we should not simply look upon those in need as if they could have changed their state by hard work. And it is the view with which you look at that person that I think is important. Again “There but by the grace of God, go I” versus “Well, he didn’t plan very well, did he?” Sometimes, no amount of hand up will work.
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OK, Steve. I don't disagree with anything you've said but I have a question about the old fart at Kragens. Where's the tragedy? In this country he won't starve or go without health care. Are you arguing for a nicer safety net?
And about your "genetic predisposition" that precludes some to a lack of social and financial success; If they are pre-programmed to be homeless, unemployed and unhappy, why does society struggle to fix peoples lives that can't be fixed?
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Well Steve, this is where you and I will just have to agree to disagree. I patently reject the notion that some people are just destined to fail in life no matter how hard they work because they were "dealt a bad hand". Beethoven went DEAF in his childhood and still managed to compose some of the most beautiful music in our civilization. I have seen too many people pull themselves up by their bootstraps and make it in life to agree with the notion that some folks are just "losers" and we should put them on the gubmint dole. I completely am in favor of charity and I think that the government should have a support system for those who fall on hard times. But I think that support system should be geared towards bringing that person back into the workforce and returning them to productive society. Welfare, on the other hand, pays the individual for sitting on their can, pays them for having multiple children which they cannot support and penalizes them for going out and working (ever hear the stories of how people can't work at McDonalds while on welfare because they then "make too much" even though it is still less than their welfare check?).
Liberals need to realize that welfare is perpetuating poverty and reliance on the government for daily essentials in this country. It is NOT the government's job to provide a lifetime of welfare checks to those who choose to not work, even if you think they are genetically inferior to you.
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With all due respect to some really thoughtful posters on this subject, I think everyone is talking around the issue.
What separates us (the lib vs. conservative spectrum) is not so much how we feel about the guy or gal that made nothing of their life. I'm on the left side but I would never think to say, "oh, that poor fellow he came from a poor family and got involved with drugs and then went to jail for stealing, I need to help him." I know that is the parody a lot of conservatives play in their heads when thinking about "us." But its just not true ... I think that guy is a jerk that had opportunities but blew them, because he was lazy, dishonest, or whatever. I don't pity him. But here's what separates us ... What do we do about him? What do we do about his kids? How do we build a society where there are fewer people like him? Pretend you live in a small town of 100 people, including a crack-addicted woman with 4 kids aged 3-10. There are no other resources available to her or her kids except the town and its people. You control the town. What do you do about her? What do you do about her kids? |
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![]() This kind of thinking leads to the conclusion that perhaps if those people are just destined to fail and will never provide any contribution to society......maybe we should just get rid of them. Restrict their rights to procreate and produce more genetically inferior kids who will never amount to anything either. Hrm...or maybe send those genetically inferior people to the gas chambers so that they will no longer weigh down the rest of us...where have I heard that before?? Can't quite place it...
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Moses, the Kragens fart cannot afford his own retirement. Certainly not the medical part. Or at least, if he's one of those folks who don't get a (medical insurance) seat when the music stops playing then he might need some help. As long as he gets what he needs, we libs are happy. Don't know where the elite assumption comes from. Well, yes I do I guess.
If life is a carousel, then some folks have an outside horse and some have an inside horse. You cannot reach the brass ring from an inside horse.
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Not retiring comfortably will be punishment for not planning. Who knows? I'd tend to think of a older man working basic jobs as independently wealthy and needing something to do - like the joke about the CEO who wants to spend the rest of his days as a Wal Mart greeter.. rjp
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I don't want to do anything about the non-contributors. Hell, I applaud their independence and celebrate their freedom. It is not necessary for a person to achieve anything at all in order for their life to have meaning. It's their life and it has meaning to them. Why do we feel so much angst when people make life choices that make us uncomfortable?
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I sometimes look at those Poker world series matches with this view. Sometimes probability surprises everyone. Moses, Why we struggle to fix their lives really defines us as a whole. The idea of personal accountability and responsibility works for most people, not for all. Rodeo, I don't agree with your suggestion of our need for intervention. Your case is too limiting. His kids may be fine by their own hands. And I don't jump to the conclusion that he blew it. But I don't pity him either.
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Around here, being locked up for drug use - you have to pay for your own rehab (which is hugely expensive) or stay locked up. Being locked up, the kids will become custody of the state and be put up for adoption or a foster home. There's government intervention for you. Doubtful you will get them back. As far as I know, there's no free get out of jail while we watch your kids and give you a job card. All the doors of opportunity are slammed in your face. You have never ending court and lawyer costs, "fees" for participating in outbound rehab, the cost of the rehab itself, work release, parole officers, it's nasty. You will always have an entry level job thanks to all the limitations you now have. Oh, and the stigma. You'll never be trusted for any job with a double digit per hour pay rate. You're a felon and custody of the state when that happens to you. It's permanent. The felons do anything to get out, but eventually screw it up again. Simply costs too much to participate in the rehab and work release programs. Forget about having your own business. Addicts are a nasty bunch. Always have an excuse and an apology, and it never, ever changes. They deserve it.
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I am not looking to give him riches. But in the end of our lives there should be basic medical, food and shelter for all. Most will have accomplished this on their own, but a small number will not. And if we provide it with the attitude that "Look buddy, you screwed up, but we will provide the necessities for you", well I just think we are devaluing him.
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