My 3 y/o keeps playing with himself..

[sewell94]

He just practicing to be a porn star. which wouldn't be that bad. I can see Jim on true life storys saying hes always been a progidy , and that hes been doing this since he was kid.

[techweenie]

My friend's daughter is pretty into it at 7. She does it at night, in bed, in private but isn't all that shy about it. Her 9-year-old sister thinks it's kind of icky. Mom is not making a big deal out of it, expecting that the behavior is going to stay private. Both are adopted Russian orphans so it's not easy to know what they were exposed to when very young. They seem to be extremely well adjusted in every other way.

[BlueSkyJaunte]

Originally posted by Jim Cesiro
Yes he is snipped.

You have my curiosity now. Why do you ask?

Well, you shot down my theory, anyway. You may recall (or you might not) I posted a poll surveying the circumcision landscape here in the US. My wife was dead-set against it and it's traditional in my family. End result, my son is uncut.

My wife claims (from reading material--not experience) that uncut men enjoy sex more.

Oh well, there goes my argument.

[Dave L]

Just be thankful that he does it in private. Imagine at the grocery store or when friends are over.

I am sure it will pass.

[Jims5543]

I did not know there were men that were not enjoying sex that much. How do you guage enjoying sex more?

I had read that unsnipped men finish faster because their glans are more sensitive due to them being tucked in their protective glove.

So I guess that equates to enjoying it more.

Both my boys are snipped. A co worker was on my case about it when my 1st was born. Then she had to take her 8 y/o in to get snipped. End of argument.

My personal experiance end results may vary from penis to penis.

[Joe Ricard]

it will pass Don't worry about it. If not well, just provide him with the guidance to know where this behavior is and is not acceptable.

[scottmandue]

Originally posted by Jim Cesiro


My personal experience end results may vary from penis to penis.

and how many penises do you have personal experience with?

Sorry Jim, just couldn't pass that one up.

[Burnin' oil]

Just remind him that IT'S DIRTY, IT'S DIRTY!! DON'T EVER TOUCH YOUR DIRTY, FILTHY LITTLE PENIS!! DIRTY, DIRTY, DIRTY!! That should help.

[pmajka]

" I just found out what my special purpose is!!!!."

--THe JeRK

[fastpat]

Originally posted by Jim Cesiro
LOL!! He is 3 YEARS OLD.

Maybe I should just get him a hooker.

A masturbation speach should not be needed for at least 8 more years.

Its more like he is playing with a new found toy. Its little he pokes around at it it gets big. He thinks its cool.

I am more baffled at the fact that he hides to do this.

Thoms friends kid whipped her junk out in front of everyone without a concern. That is how its supposed to be with a 3 year old.

You might want to ask him why he hides. He may have heard something from an older child. Is he ever in daycare?

[Schrup]

My son is 3 1/2 & has gone through little phases like this, but he has never tried to hide it. I also have a daughter that is now grown that I recall having some behavior like that as well. How I approached it was to ask them if they have to go potty & leave it at that, very simple, but effective.

If my son was hiding it, I would wonder where he learned it. My wife is very open-minded & doesn’t en/discourages this sort of thing. I would call my son's pediatrician & ask if it's normal for a child to hide this behavior unlearned before I started the inquisition.

[speeder]

I have a vivid memory of standing before my Dad once when I was very small and pulling on my little knob through my pajamas, (not really masterbating but just mindlessly diddling), and my Dad very matter-of-factly said, "stop playing w/ your dick".

Not very tactful, I know, but I was only embarrassed for about 5 seconds and it broke the habit. (At least with an audience). I just had not even realised I was doing it.

Ah, sometimes I pine for those non-PC times when parenting was a lot simpler.

[techweenie]

Originally posted by speeder
I have a vivid memory of standing before my Dad once when I was very small and pulling on my little knob through my pajamas, (not really masterbating but just mindlessly diddling), and my Dad very matter-of-factly said, "stop playing w/ your dick".

Not very tactful, I know, but I was only embarrassed for about 5 seconds and it broke the habit. (At least with an audience). I just had not even realised I was doing it.

Ah, sometimes I pine for those non-PC times when parenting was a lot simpler.

I remember my brother doing that, absent-mindedly at the lake. My father said: "stop pulling on it. it won't get any longer."

[BlueSkyJaunte]

Now that I think of it I distinctly remember my mother frequently telling my sister to stop "digging". I think she was 3 or so at the time. LOL!

[Jims5543]

Awesome, unfortunatly, my 3 year old does not know what the word dick means. Its a PP or as nanny and nano call it a pishi.

Originally posted by speeder
I have a vivid memory of standing before my Dad once when I was very small and pulling on my little knob through my pajamas, (not really masterbating but just mindlessly diddling), and my Dad very matter-of-factly said, "stop playing w/ your dick".

Not very tactful, I know, but I was only embarrassed for about 5 seconds and it broke the habit. (At least with an audience). I just had not even realised I was doing it.

Ah, sometimes I pine for those non-PC times when parenting was a lot simpler.

[speeder]

Well, I was only playing w/ one thing at the time so any word would have worked.

If I was juggling or riding a unicycle while pulling my pud, it would have been confusing.

[FrayAdjacent911]

You mean we're supposed to play with it all out in the open?

[Erakad]

Sounds like he needs a subscription to Hustler.

[legion]

We're supposed to stop absent-mindedly playing with it?

I'll have to get a nervous tick or something now.

[Mad Mike]

Perhaps the freedom of no diaper while potty training has exposed him to new findings...

If you had your pecker wrapped up for 3 years, wouldn't you what to feel it?