Pelican Parts Forums - My fiance is cheating on me and addicted to meth

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Originally Posted by Kurt V (Post 4206967)

Armon, let me give you another reason to not have any further contact with her. Your job. I got on AKO and saw what unit you are in, not to mention your phone number. Did you re-enlist for a language school? If so eventually you will be wanting/required to get a Top Secret SBI security clearance. Just from what you have written there is enough there to deny it. Then good bye to your new MOS and hello to working in the motor pool.

You have been given advice on seeing a counsellor. Normally I would agree with this. But if you put that down on your SF 86 you will again have trouble getting a TS clearance.

You already have sent up red flags asking for a piss test.

Just wanted to give you a heads up.

I already have a TS clearance. I didn't ask for the pee test, I just said if they wanted to give me one I fully understand and have no problem with it. My 1SG explained to me that the pee test wasn't to incriminate me, but to protect me. The therapist I'm going to see is a civilian located on base, and what goes on with her doesn't go in any official file. I fully understand what you're saying about her affecting my career also. It hurts, but we're completely through.

Yes, I de-friended her on my myspace. If anyone else wants to join my friends group on myspace, I'm myspace.com/infinitenexus. I emailed her grandmother and explained that I very much appreciate all the help she's been, but that I should break contact with her also. I did not give her my new phone number.

I'm trying to go to the gym, I'm huge on exercise and health, but the past week or so, with me working nights and not being able to sleep, I've been going out to my car and taking a nap on my 2 hour PT break. On my next days off (monday, tuesday) I'm goig to head to the gym for a proper workout, really get back into it. I also need to go grocery shopping.