Most men don't marry at 70. But it's a sound rule otherwise.

Oh man, I knew this thread was going to end up being prime.



I'm keeping things slow, if I'm reading this wrong and start to call her and see her too often without reason it's going to push her away. However next time I see her I'm going to try to make it more clear, maybe more physically than verbally, that friends might not be cutting it... and see what she does.


Once in the past there was a woman I dated who I thought I could seriously marry. I then realized that I thought this because she fulfilled the only three requirements I had at that time: She was nice, attractive, and we were bumping it like rabbits. It wouldn't have lasted; and she ended up marrying some random idiot. The kind of guy you just look at and go "wow that guy looks dumb".

This one is different as I have said... and the fact that I've taken such great interest in her so seriously even though I have yet to attain carnal knowledge of this woman means something. Obviously she's special, and at the same time maybe I'm just getting older.

dude, you only want what you haven't had.
grow up and start taking care of you

If by wanting what I haven't had means I'd like to be around a woman who is caring, funny, smart, not annoying, that I get and that gets me, and that I love...

then yea... I want what I haven't had. I haven't had someone like that, ever.


I think I've taken care of myself just fine.

Genius!

by the Chinese rule I should get me a 35 year old! AND a really really big bottle of Viagra.

According to the chinese rule, I should get a 22-year old now.

And I should have gotten a 19-year old when I did get married...

I've been violating the "half plus 7" rule for a bit now, and I'm very happy. Tired, but happy.

According to my math, my (ex)wife and I pretty much hit that mark when we were married.

I didn't work :(

fuel for the the fire...

Bro i'm just sayin'.... ;)

"I'm keeping things slow, if I'm reading this wrong and start to call her and see her too often without reason it's going to push her away. However next time I see her I'm going to try to make it more clear, maybe more physically than verbally, that friends might not be cutting it... and see what she does."

I don't get this at all. If it's meant to be it will work out. Otherwise she's stringing you along and you will never get out of the friend zone. Screw that. Either she digs you and wants to be around you or you need to keep looking.

the friend zone is a crappy place. i tend to agree with jerry (hetmann). if she likes you, you should be able to feel it.

Next time you see her, kiss her. If she likes you, you'll know.

If not, well, you don't have to wonder any more.

Fortune favors the bold.

Respectfully disagree.

Never up, never on.
All in and over the top.
Life is too short.
It takes money to buy whiskey.
Names are for tombstones and titles are for books.
I'm fresh out of ideas, now its time for action.

No talk. No "plan." Do.

Reality: She's a woman and thinks like one.

Plan accordingly.

rjp

Or plan 2:

Hit it and quit it.

rjp