Whats up with this place lately??
 

Seems like every other thread turns into some kind of pissing match. People have been getting more nasty, opinionated and arrogant. Even the simplest topic turns into who know more about it than the other guy.


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Spring of the year and the stags are in rut?:rolleyes:

Actually, I think things would improve if people would read to understand before flying off the handle.
To all Pelicans: After writing your clever ripost/diatribe, re-read it, think about it and delete it if it adds nothing to the general fund.

Works for me.:D

Best
Les

Noticed that too Vinny , I come here because I generally like most of you guys/gals, and like the friendly back and forth that usually happens here . Hell, if I want to get treated like ****, I can just go to work, or tell my old lady that she looks fat in those jeans.
Jeez, some of you need to lighten up. I'm sometimes afraid to post, I don't want peoples panties gettin' all bunched up .
Love you guys...
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Everyone needs to go outside and play for a while...

Me included.

angela

The question is asked every 2 years. It just happens to coincide with the US election cycle.

Ian

So...did the "knockers-in-the-garden" discussion inspire this thread?

Knockers are like sex. The worst I ever had was great.

I don't come here to argue, makes no sense because no one here ever changes their mind anyway. It wouldn't be manly of them. :D

Some of the best pieces of advice I had given at work when I was young:

Just because I do it differently than you, doesn't make my way wrong and your way right.

Seems to apply here.......My wife is a year or two older than Mrs. 126....She has a larger chest after a breat REDUCTION......I would never post a pic of here here dressed like that. But, I enjoyed his pic and don't think less of him for posting it......

Just roll with things.....

How could it not have been the "garden" thread? There were some very hurtful and unnecessary comments made.

It appears to me that it's the same four or five guys spouting the vitriolic responses and opinionated criticism. My guess is they are all younger, powerless cubical workers looking for a place to be powerful. The anonymity of internet discussion forums enables that condition. If real names were used, as some club forums have done, the discussions would be more civil.

Sadly craig, most of the grumps around here are old white guys with not much better to do...

I've started not responding to a lot of threads because of it.

People didn't say negative things about the woman in question in the garden - it was more questioning the OP's motive/methods. And his responses certain had plenty of venom.

imho PARF has pulled down the entire place. PPOT has never been particularly sanitized or PC, but there typically was a level of respect shown. At some point about a dozen or so regulars decided that wasn't necessary and eventually PARF happened. There is a vocal minority that loves to roll in the mud, and it bleeds through to here.

People are never going to agree about everything. And there still are plenty of good people here. But from time to time I tune out as that minority get tiring...

The first part is not entirely correct.There was at least one really inappropriate comment directed Ms. 126 that had to be deleted.

But I agree with the remainder.

I agree, but an additional mechanic I notice on the web is that people are more likely to "correct" or write a response to something they disagree with, as it actually upsets them and makes a stronger emotional need for response.

This is why I do not have a NASCAR or Google/Youtube account, I'd be online every waking minute responding and "correcting" comments.

Facebook came out with a system that sorted "top stories" based on the people you responded to, and I noticed people complaining that the top stories were all the things they didn't want to see. I pointed out that they replied to the stuff they didn't like more than the stuff they did like - so its the natural consequence if things get sorted by who/what you reply to.

I would much rather not have PARF at all, you get to know the people who make threads that you wouldn't be interested in and just not click, it also puts the things where other forum members understand why for no reason whatsoever some one rated an awesome thread 1 star, etc.

I only pop in every once in awhile to read threads now. They seem to be more and more of the same lately. I used to learn so much on this forum. Lately it seems like I just sigh, shake my head, and log out after a couple of minutes. There are so many lovely people I have met here but as of late, I haven't had the same feeling. My visits here have become more and more infrequent.

I have faith in Pelican though and won't leave. ;)

Me too! I still reply carefully, but rarely post new anymore. Share a pic of a cool new mod to your car, or a F1 vacation, and you get "Stop bragging you insecure loser". Share pic of your daughter in University grad gown..."damn, buy that dog a nose job".

Call me soft, but I do merger and acquisition negotiation and transaction restructure. I come hear to get away from conflict and share with fellow air-cooled Porsche enthusiasts.

Vitriolic attacks on a man who's proud of his wife? WTF? Don't like it, don't read it.

When a man injects tits into a conversation the ONLY appropriate response is 'thanks bud!'

Perhaps this should be part of a personality evaluation...
Q1 - A man says 'I love my wifes tits!'. Your response is:
a) Awesome!!!
b) You are a pig
c) That is awful
d) You deserve to be divorced

Evaluation Key:
Question 1: If (a) you are dealing with a normal guy. If any other answer your subject is a dick.

+1

This old white guy sees too much humor in all of you. :p

What if he posts his wife's tits then accuses you of having any ugly wife? Let's at least be real about that thread, the OP was the one who made it nasty and personal.