Up Talking = Obnoxious!

[campbellcj]

Our son did it for a while as a tween and several educators and others suggested speech therapy. It is a bad habit that should be curtailed ASAP. Fortunately our son "grew out of it" with just coaching from us and a caring teacher. I suspect many kids aren't even aware they are doing it until it's pointed-out to them.

A woman I know ends almost every written sentence with a question mark, and talks that way to some extent as well. It's irritating as all hell and as an educated professional she must know better but has chosen to communicate in this way. It's not my duty to "save her" from looking like a fool so I haven't brought it up, but it's hard to believe her close family or friends have not confronted her over the years.

[Rick Lee]

"I know. Right?"

Makes my blood boil! It's even worse when people write it just like that.

[gorthar]

Originally Posted by Rick Lee

"I know. Right?"

Makes my blood boil! It's even worse when people write it just like that.

Lord have mercy that one drives me insane.



I don't know if I'm just intolerant or other people are just stupid lol.

[Rick V]

Originally Posted by Rick Lee

"I know. Right?"

Makes my blood boil! It's even worse when people write it just like that.

Yeah that one makes me want to smack someone

[911SauCy]

Originally Posted by Rick Lee

"I know. Right?"

Makes my blood boil! It's even worse when people write it just like that.

This used to annoy me.

Now standard response is, "No, I don't know."

Stupid brainless stare insues

[cashflyer]

Kids are a product of their environment, dontcha know?

[Joe Bob]

Someone comes up to you and says...."Ummmmm"....then silence. Like waiting on the other shoe to drop. Get yer thoughts together before you open yer piehole....

Ummmmm is a not a word.

[Rick Lee]

And there's also an alarming trend of people in business settings beginning all answers with the word "so." It's an immediate credibility killer.

[Joe Bob]

Oh yeah....."basically".........

[dwight45]

It seems to me that that the English language is too tough for most people, too many words that folks don't understand. Dictionary?? That's the thing under the modem. Americans are a bunch of sheep when it comes to our language. If there is a NEW expression, people climb over one another to use the "Cool" redundant/ tired or new expression "Ya Think? When I hear that, to me, it means you are a dumb **** and the speaker is helping you understand. I guess DUH has lost traction/popularity. Maybe it is the spelling. if you can dig that? (Bonehead; left out but implied). Too many smart people out there for me. I'll just use Pidgin, the next "hot thing".

[motion]

A lot of Delta FA's are up-talking while making announcements on the planes these days. Its catching on and growing pretty quickly. I HATE listening to it.

[Oh Haha]

Originally Posted by Rick Lee

And there's also an alarming trend of people in business settings beginning all answers with the word "so." It's an immediate credibility killer.

YES! I dig Shark Tank and hear this from the contestants ALOT.

"Ok, so what we did is......"

argh

[Porsche-O-Phile]

They're all bad / weird / annoying / unnecessary but personally I'd rather listen to "up talk", silly Canadian "eh?" suffixes, valley girl speak, NYC / Brooklyn "macho" talk or even southern drawl over the northeast / Boston accent. Nasal, dry and a complete inability to pronounce the letter "r" (which if you study speech development in kids is one of the last sounds kids learn to make, suggesting most people here never advanced beyond a seven or eight year-old level speech-wise). If a stupider, more annoying or more credibility-destroying accent / dialect ever existed I have not come across it. It's hard to take anyone seriously who sounds like that. My $0.02.

[Rapewta]

That post was "Epic."

Seriously?

[dennis in se pa]

"So" - many people here start their posts with "so". I am sure they are nice people ANYWAY.

[Mark Henry]

If you think "eh" is different you should listen to my Newfie friend talk.

Like "yes boy", which is actually "yes B'y". Depending on the inflection he's either agreeing with you, acknowledging what you said, his surprise or he's saying you're full of poop.
I've had to warn some of my black friends that it's nothing to do with race, he does it to everyone.

There are just too many newfie sayings to list, do a google search on newfie slang.

BTW his wife is from Dildo.

[yetibone]

I've always thought of upward inflection at the end of a sentence to be a passive-aggressive means of condescension, used by people with self perceived broad base of knowledge, but little confidence, and low self esteem.

It is annoying. I have to make a concerted effort to listen beyond just hearing the words when I'm being spoken to in that manner.

[DanielDudley]

Originally Posted by Mark Henry

If you think "eh" is different you should listen to my Newfie friend talk.

BTW his wife is from Dildo.

Where I grew up, they would have said, ''She comes from up Dildo.''.

Jeese, Bubs, was also a common expression, as was AYAH. Ayah, Bub.

It could always be worse.

[DanielDudley]

Originally Posted by Porsche-O-Phile

If a stupider, more annoying or more credibility-destroying accent / dialect ever existed I have not come across it. It's hard to take anyone seriously who sounds like that. My $0.02.

What HAVE you come across, Mr O'phile ? Ever come across anyone from up Dildo ?

[widebody911]

I've even heard young TV and radio personalities doing that? I never knew what it was called?

Originally Posted by dennis in se pa

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My daughter has picked up this HABIT? You KNOW? Where she ends all of her sentences as if she is asking a QUESTION? It is obnoxious. It is worse than "Valley Girl" talk.

Maybe I am just getting old. And grumpy. And mean.

Here is another. Enjoy!

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