Stijn!!

[Flieger]

Originally Posted by vas930

Thats part of the issue, Max.
You are looking for a wife!
Forget that, you may have ten GFs before you meet the right one.
It may end up being a friend of a GF.
Or a sister, or whatever.
If you want to get wet, you must get in the pool!
Take that first step.

But I can't just forget it. That is what I am yearning for. Even if I need to see other people to find a companion like that, I will still be longing as I am now.

[Flieger]

F***, I don't even know the first thing about dating.

[vas930]

Ok, Max.
I can do no more.

[Flieger]

Originally Posted by vas930

Ok, Max.
I can do no more.

That's alright Vas, I am young. I will have to figure it out myself.

[vas930]

Originally Posted by Flieger

F***, I don't even know the first thing about dating.

Then stop looking for a wife and just date and have some fun.
You will find out by doing.
You know I am right.

[Flieger]

Originally Posted by vas930

Then date the ones you are comfortable with as a start.
They will have friends and sisters and so on.
Go out with them not as a date if you want.
Thats the start you must make.

I could see the non-date thing happening.

[Flieger]

Originally Posted by vas930

Then stop looking for a wife and just date and have some fun.
You will find out by doing.
You know I am right.

Learn by Doing- the Cal Poly motto.

[vas930]

Originally Posted by Flieger

That's alright Vas, I am young. I will have to figure it out myself.

I fear you may not, Max.
Thats why I am trying to help.
While trying to work it out life goes by.
Dont get sucked into the need to ask anyone out.
You just get involved and before you know it, you have someone.
Its not a logical plan like building something.
The doing is the dating and meeting.
Do you see what I am saying?

[Embraer]

+1000

[Flieger]

I guess it would help if I were here on the weekend of Open House but my Dad and I have long since bought our tickets to the Long Beach ALMS race that weekend. We have gone since 2007. Can't miss that.

[vas930]

Originally Posted by Flieger

Learn by Doing- the Cal Poly motto.

Thats it.
You cant learn this from us or in a book.
Learn by doing, how can you, a smart dude, deny that logic.
Now do it.

[Flieger]

Originally Posted by vas930

I fear you may not, Max.
Thats why I am trying to help.
While trying to work it out life goes by.
Dont get sucked into the need to ask anyone out.
You just get involved and before you know it, you have someone.
Its not a logical plan like building something.
The doing is the dating and meeting.
Do you see what I am saying?

Yes, the first part troubles me but the second gives me hope. But the second is what I think I am doing, but I am not in the right places/activities to meet women.

[vas930]

Originally Posted by Flieger

I guess it would help if I were here on the weekend of Open House but my Dad and I have long since bought our tickets to the Long Beach ALMS race that weekend. We have gone since 2007. Can't miss that.

Good for you.
Dont miss that and all your racing that you love.
However, 365 day in a year.

[slodave]

Originally Posted by Flieger

I guess it would help if I were here on the weekend of Open House but my Dad and I have long since bought our tickets to the Long Beach ALMS race that weekend. We have gone since 2007. Can't miss that.

Yes, you can! It sucks, but life (*) does get in the way. That was my point with your giving up your college racing design/racing program.

* Your suddenly seem to be finding yourself in this dilemma.

[Flieger]

Plus I think open house will be mostly high school seniors looking to apply here. At least that was the only time I went to it- as a hs senior.

[vas930]

Originally Posted by Flieger

Yes, the first part troubles me but the second gives me hope. But the second is what I think I am doing, but I am not in the right places/activities to meet women.

You already said that you know girls that you can talk to.
Stop making excuses.
Go out and about with them as I said.
Walk before you run!

[slodave]

And trip a few (hundred) times.

[Flieger]

Originally Posted by slodave

Yes, you can! It sucks, but life does get in the way. That was my point with your giving up your college racing design/racing program.

What? Life gets in the way of the thing which basically completes me? Designing like that is what I have wanted to do as far back as I can remember. The drawings I used to do as a child...

No way I am giving up FSAE. Maybe next year I'll meet some girls at the competition.

[slodave]

Originally Posted by Flieger

What? Life gets in the way of the thing which basically completes me? Designing like that is what I have wanted to do as far back as I can remember. The drawings I used to do as a child...

No way I am giving up FSAE. Maybe next year I'll meet some girls at the competition.

You gave up on it this year, Max.

[Flieger]

Originally Posted by vas930

You already said that you know girls that you can talk to.
Stop making excuses.
Go out and about with them as I said.
Walk before you run!

It is hard with my schedule for the next month or so. No time. Actually, I really should get to bed. I don't want to look too tired for the blue eyed girl.