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recycled sixtie 11-23-2016 05:19 AM

Sounds like you are doing well Lee. Initial separation is really tough on both of you but you survived. Better times are ahead. :)

Oh Haha 11-23-2016 05:21 AM

I'm glad to hear you are getting through this. Best wishes for a successful recovery.

masraum 11-23-2016 05:25 AM

It's fantastic to hear that things seem to be going really well, not only on the personal front for you, but that the actual divorce itself seemed to go so quick and easy.

OffCamber00 11-23-2016 05:29 AM

Wow....that is a fantastic update. You almost never hear such a good outcome like that. Its the best case scenario when you have to part ways.....treat each other like adults, be fair, and stay friends.

congrats, Lee.

crustychief 11-23-2016 05:53 AM

Good for you Lee.
My divorce was the best thing ever. Kind of like a knee replacement, you know it will hurt and there will be downtime but afterwards you wonder why you didn't do it sooner. My ex and I are good friends now, better than the last 6 years of our relationship.

red-beard 11-23-2016 05:57 AM

If you got along that well at the property settlement, I expect that you'll get along OK afterwards. My ex-wife was a total "B" at the settlement, but we went back to sort-of friends once everything was over. Best of luck in your endeavors!

Seahawk 11-23-2016 05:59 AM

Your post speaks well for both of you.

How is your daughter doing?

jhynesrockmtn 11-23-2016 06:13 AM

Great update, good for you! Hope your daughter is doing well! Happy Thanksgiving.

JJ 911SC 11-23-2016 06:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LeeH (Post 9369339)
... We've only met in person once, but dinner lasted 3.5 hours and thankfully the staff of the restaurant didn't kick us out when they closed an hour and a half before we left! :) ...

Good for you.

Kind of funny, our first date lasted 6 hours with a 3 hours dinner and just like you the last hour they were close and cleaning up the place.

A suggestion for your second date, Do Not take her to see "Pulp Fiction" like I did :D:):D but she still marry me.

onewhippedpuppy 11-23-2016 07:15 AM

Excellent Lee, I'm glad things are going as well as possible considering the circumstances.

john70t 11-23-2016 07:31 AM

Much more difficult than losing a fair-weather friend, but sounds like it worked out for the best.
You both realized a better path in life, and the daughter will have an expanded extended family in the future.

red-beard 11-23-2016 08:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JJ 911SC (Post 9369537)
Good for you.

Kind of funny, our first date lasted 6 hours with a 3 hours dinner and just like you the last hour they were close and cleaning up the place.

A suggestion for your second date, Do Not take her to see "Pulp Fiction" like I did :D:):D but she still marry me.

Mine was "Platoon"....

Oh and the other one, with a different girlfriend was "8mm"

Charles Freeborn 11-23-2016 08:19 AM

Chin up - soldier on.
I lost my first wife to cancer. Life does go on.
-C

motion 11-23-2016 08:30 AM

Sounds like you're in a good place, Lee. Kudos to you for surviving and thriving.

porsche4life 11-23-2016 09:10 AM

Great to hear Lee!

Porsche-O-Phile 11-23-2016 09:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by red-beard (Post 9369661)
Mine was "Platoon"....

Oh and the other one, with a different girlfriend was "8mm"

Haha, gotta be the most awkward first date movie ever!

McLovin 11-23-2016 10:54 AM

Thanks for the update, so glad to hear it went so smoothly and you're doing well!

Baz 11-23-2016 11:22 AM

Good to hear, Lee....as KC said....SAIL ON, brother!

red-beard 11-23-2016 12:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Porsche-O-Phile (Post 9369761)
Haha, gotta be the most awkward first date movie ever!

They weren't first dates, but they were ****ty dates!

Evans, Marv 11-23-2016 12:31 PM

Lee, I hope you remember some of the advice from long ago when some said to give it plenty of time and put yourself first. Get out, play the field and have fun.


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