What would you do? - Page 2

Joeaksa · 03-08-2007, 09:40 AM

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Originally posted by turbocarrera
The best advice by far..

Yea but Widebody's advise sounds a lot more fun... especially as he strokes it in saying "thats for your new boyfriend!"

Gene Wilkes · 03-08-2007, 10:01 AM

Bang her BEST FRIEND! (hopefully it's a female!) ;-)

scottmandue · 03-08-2007, 10:04 AM

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Originally posted by motion
WTF? All this advice without knowing what the parameters of the relationship are? Perhaps "thegeck" has only dated her once? Or twice? What's the real story, Rick?

Indeed, that's why I asked how old he is for starters... high school, college, career guy, etc.

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Originally posted by The Gaijin

Do it for a while and Mr. Right rises to the top. It sucks if your dumped - but I wish my sister had employed such a system to find a mate...

Dunno about that... the woman I referred to had hit forty and showed no signs of stopping the bedroom rotation routine. Not that there is anything wrong with that as long as that is the kind of lifestyle you enjoy. She wasn't and was constantly riding the emotional roller coaster of looking for her "true love" and breaking up with the latest "Mr. Right".

gprsh924 · 03-08-2007, 10:05 AM

dump her and live free

legion · 03-08-2007, 10:07 AM

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Originally posted by gostraight
Don't confrunt her. Don't say anything, don't do anything just ignore her. Dump her without telling her. That will kill her. Don't give her a chance to explain anything to make herself fell better....

+1000

Normally, I'm against vindictive head games, but you gotta teach a lesson once in a while. She will invent causes for the break up far worse than anything you could say.

legion · 03-08-2007, 10:13 AM

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Originally posted by scottmandue
Sound like a lady I dated a few years back... always had lots of *friends* and one guy she was boinking... as one guy would get sick of her sheet... one of her *friends* would become her new FB... and if you dared imply she was queuing up future boyfriends she would freak out.

I had a female friend in college who wanted to keep me on her permanent DH list.

Problem was, she didn't want me to date anyone else, just to be there when "she needed me".

I thought we were good, platonic (most of the time) friends. We would talk about people we were interested in. Turns out, if I mentioned another girl to her, she would go behind my back and tell the girl I was abusive, into cocaine, had HIV...anything to get them to run screaming from me. Turns out I was single most of college because of her antics...

Jeff Higgins · 03-08-2007, 10:17 AM

C'mon, guys, lighten up. It was probably just her brother.

Gene Wilkes · 03-08-2007, 10:17 AM

Bang her best female friend, just for good measure!

legion · 03-08-2007, 10:19 AM

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Originally posted by scottmandue
Dunno about that... the woman I referred to had hit forty and showed no signs of stopping the bedroom rotation routine. Not that there is anything wrong with that as long as that is the kind of lifestyle you enjoy. She wasn't and was constantly riding the emotional roller coaster of looking for her "true love" and breaking up with the latest "Mr. Right".

Most men and women who I know that live a promiscuous lifestyle are emotional basket cases. Some hide it better than others. Most really, truly want to stop the revolving door of bedfellows and settle down, but don't know how to stop the cycle. Some are addicted to new lovers, some have impossibly high standards for long-term relationships, some cannot maintain even the appearance of fidelity.

scottmandue · 03-08-2007, 10:46 AM

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Originally posted by legion
Most men and women who I know that live a promiscuous lifestyle are emotional basket cases. Some hide it better than others. Most really, truly want to stop the revolving door of bedfellows and settle down, but don't know how to stop the cycle. Some are addicted to new lovers, some have impossibly high standards for long-term relationships, some cannot maintain even the appearance of fidelity.

Yep... that would be her

Sad too because otherwise she was very intelligent and funny... I got the bright idea that I could help her out (and maybe get laid).

In the history of bad ideas it was a VERY bad idea.

rammstein · 03-08-2007, 10:50 AM

Clearly you are under the impression that you are in a relationship. Has she led you to believe that you two are in a relationship?

If so:
Leave without another breath. Not to be vindictive, but just tear it like a bandaid. Why continue? People will not change something as basic as this- if an adult cheats, thats just who they are. There's no "I was drunk" or "He's just an old friend" or anything like that.

If not:
This means you are F-Buddies. So, you should realize that this comes with the territory. If you can get over it and continue being F-Buddies, cool. If are CURRENTLY F-Buddies, and now you want to make it more, make that clear, and if she's down then cool. If not, leave.

Do NOT do a vindictive banging, followed by a "GOTCHA! YOU'RE DUMPED! Sorry bout throwing it in the pooper!". You are risking all types of psychotic nonsense- "He raped me!". Imaging throwing THAT fiasco into your life. Sex is simply not worth all of that.

rammstein · 03-08-2007, 10:52 AM

Also-

Chances are the guy in question has no idea about you, so its pretty uncool to break HIS arms. And even if he did, he's not the one in a "contract of sorts" with you. Your lady is. She is the one who wronged you. He is just a douche and certainly not worth assault charges.

PRE-H20 · PRE-H20's Garage

WTF...... move to another city brotha...... !!!!!

a city that only has ONE skirt in it is NOT a city to be in.

madmmac · madmmac's Garage

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Originally posted by thegeck
I am seeing someone, it's going well I think,

Maybe for you, but must not be too true for her.

Cut it off.

Rot 911 · 03-08-2007, 12:30 PM

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Originally posted by thegeck
I already broke arms once, I'm trying to avoid that again.

Wow, aren't you the ******* stud. So you want to break the arms of a guy the girl is kissing? What did he do that doesn't come naturally? Think she has told him about you? Grow up.

dtw · 03-08-2007, 01:08 PM

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Originally posted by Kurt V
Wow, aren't you the ******* stud. So you want to break the arms of a guy the girl is kissing? What did he do that doesn't come naturally? Think she has told him about you? Grow up.

True enough, but what if it was the girl's arms that he broke...

gostraight · gostraight's Garage

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Originally posted by dtw
True enough, but what if it was the girl's arms that he broke...

not worth it... if that would be the case....Imagine how many armless women would be running arround. ... Half the WallMart parking lot would be handicap spots....

Joeaksa · 03-08-2007, 01:51 PM

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Originally posted by dtw
True enough, but what if it was the girl's arms that he broke...

No ones arms need be broken. Either break it off in her or just walk away and not say a word.

Life is too short worrying about one woman when there are thousands of them out there to choose from.

scottmandue · 03-08-2007, 02:06 PM

Bang her mom...

That will really mess with her head.

75'930cab · 03-08-2007, 08:43 PM

It's 2007 set her to the curb via text or email!!!