What would you do?

thegeck · 03-08-2007, 08:25 AM

Short version... I am seeing someone, it's going well I think, then I see her out, and she is kissing, (not a peck) a guy that I don't recognize. I say I would break arms off and doors down, but my pals are saying to just let it go. I haven't talked to her yet. I know I don't know you guys much but any advice?

Porsche-O-Phile · Porsche-O-Phile's Garage

Nail her and dump her after the sex.

Tishabet · 03-08-2007, 08:26 AM

Break up with her, find another girl.
No breaking anything.

The Gaijin · 03-08-2007, 08:33 AM

Latest theory of female empowerment.* Date at least three guys at once. Dump the guy at the bottom and add another. One rule - no sex. Kissing is o.k. Do it for a while and Mr. Right rises to the top. It sucks if your dumped - but I wish my sister had employed such a system to find a mate...

Then again - if you are in a deeper relationship - well that stinks. But still don't break anything.

*Disclaimer here. I did not read this in Cosmo. I read it in the local paper on the way to work.

gostraight · gostraight's Garage

Don't confrunt her. Don't say anything, don't do anything just ignore her. Dump her without telling her. That will kill her. Don't give her a chance to explain anything to make herself fell better....

austin552 · austin552's Garage

Damaged goods.

kach22i · kach22i's Garage

Look for cold sores.

Aerkuld · Aerkuld's Garage

Pelican OT Line #124.

This thread is worthless without pictures!

Difficult. Are you certain she doesn't have a twin sister?

It depends how much she means to you and whether you feel you'd be able to trust her again I suppose.
If she means a lot to you then see what she has to say about it. You might work it out and move forward.
If shes just just another girlfriend and you don't see it going anywhere then turn around and walk away.

I agree with not breaking anything. Don't do something you regret later.
Hope you get it worked out.

widebody911 · widebody911's Garage

Bang her like a screen door in a hurricane, and then immediately tell her what you saw and summarily dump her ass. Extra points for 'missing' and hitting the wrong orifice.

OTOH, you didn't qualify the relationship you currently have. If you're not already at the physical level, then you probably don't have any grounds for being pissed.

thegeck · 03-08-2007, 09:02 AM

It doesn't make me a "man" to get rid of her and I don't need to do any revenge or play a game with anyone's head. Chicks are whacked, you're right. I won't talk to her until Sat. anyways which is good for me to chill out. I already broke arms once, I'm trying to avoid that again.

elwood-914 · 03-08-2007, 09:05 AM

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Originally posted by widebody911
Bang her like a screen door in a hurricane, and then immediately tell her what you saw and summarily dump her ass. Extra points for 'missing' and hitting the wrong orifice.

OTOH, you didn't qualify the relationship you currently have. If you're not already at the physical level, then you probably don't have any grounds for being pissed.

Yeah and after he dumped her, she cries RAPE. My ex was like that. CRAZY

Moses · 03-08-2007, 09:08 AM

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Originally posted by thegeck
It doesn't make me a "man" to get rid of her ...

No, but it makes you a world-class pussy if you stick around.

The only way to handle this and maintain any degree of self respect is to stop answering her calls. No fights, no tantrums, no explanations. Man up.

austin552 · austin552's Garage

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Originally posted by widebody911
Extra points for 'missing' and hitting the wrong orifice.

Wide, your killing me.

Tishabet · 03-08-2007, 09:13 AM

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Originally posted by thegeck
I already broke arms once, I'm trying to avoid that again.

Then don't get yourself in a situation where that might be the outcome. That would be stupid.

Porsche-O-Phile · Porsche-O-Phile's Garage

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Originally posted by elwood-914
Yeah and after he dumped her, she cries RAPE. My ex was like that. CRAZY

Just make sure you film it then. You know. . . to exonerate yourself.

And e-mail a copy to me for safekeeping.

the · 03-08-2007, 09:34 AM

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Originally posted by thegeck
It doesn't make me a "man" to get rid of her

How do you figure?

scottmandue · 03-08-2007, 09:38 AM

RUN FOREST RUN!!!

If I may ask how old are you?

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Originally posted by The Gaijin
Latest theory of female empowerment.* Date at least there guys at once. Dump the guy at the bottom and add another. One rule - no sex. Kissing is o.k. Do it for a while and Mr. Right rises to the top. It sucks if your dumped - but I wish my sister had employed such a system to find a mate...

Then again - if you are in a deeper relationship - well that stinks. But still don't break anything.

Sound like a lady I dated a few years back... always had lots of *friends* and one guy she was boinking... as one guy would get sick of her sheet... one of her *friends* would become her new FB... and if you dared imply she was queuing up future boyfriends she would freak out.

livi · 03-08-2007, 09:38 AM

You have invested recourses in this woman. You have the right to hear her explanation - and I think you should. There is a fraction of possibility that there has been some kind of misunderstanding, but more importantly - you will feel less bitter after having it all out with her. Possibly enhanced with some of the more hands on advice above.

motion · 03-08-2007, 09:39 AM

WTF? All this advice without knowing what the parameters of the relationship are? Perhaps "thegeck" has only dated her once? Or twice? What's the real story, Rick?

turbocarrera · 09:41 AM

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Originally posted by gostraight
Don't confrunt her. Don't say anything, don't do anything just ignore her. Dump her without telling her. That will kill her. Don't give her a chance to explain anything to make herself fell better....

The best advice by far..