My fiance is cheating on me and addicted to meth

[Hebrewhomeboy]

Yeah, without her around, I'm really bored a lot. I just don't have the drive to do much. So this board is keeping me busy for now I do know that she's not the same person now that I fell in love with a long time ago. I just got off the phone with her shortly ago. She's taking a shower and getting ready, and we're going to meet, and I'll sign the car over to her and help her get her stuff, and we'll say our goodbyes.

[Laneco]

You've already made the right decision - run from this chick as fast as you can...

Now quit blaming yourself! She is mixed up with meth. It was her terrible decision to use the nastiest drug on the planet. That drug is the destroyer of lives, the poison of society, the Lewinsky stain on everything that is good and decent... She brought this to herself. You did not do it.

By the way, keep the insurance on the car. If she runs over somebody driving a car that you own and gave her permission to drive, and there is no insurance, once more it will be YOU who pays the bill in most states...

angela

[austin552]

Isn't part of growing up having had a junkie, liar, thief, user, tramp, cheater, etc, etc... for a fiance?

[nostatic]

Originally Posted by Hebrewhomeboy

Yeah, without her around, I'm really bored a lot. I just don't have the drive to do much. So this board is keeping me busy for now I do know that she's not the same person now that I fell in love with a long time ago. I just got off the phone with her shortly ago. She's taking a shower and getting ready, and we're going to meet, and I'll sign the car over to her and help her get her stuff, and we'll say our goodbyes.

Anyone want to give odds that they end up in bed?

Dude...do not meet her in person. Seriously. Or at least have one of your friends there to keep you from doing something stupid.

[Hebrewhomeboy]

I've thought about it, and don't worry, I won't bang her. I'm meeting her in public areas only.

[nostatic]

Meet her with a friend of yours in attendance. Seriously. You want someone there to make sure you don't do something stupid, and also as a witness if something weird happens or if she claims something after the fact. There are so many ways for you to get hosed right now, especially in an emotional state. Do NOT meet her alone, even in a public place.

My $0.02

[austin552]

Just bang her in public.

sorry

[Heel n Toe]

Originally Posted by nostatic

You want someone there to make sure you don't do something stupid, and also as a witness if something weird happens or if she claims something after the fact.

Another reason you want someone else there any time you meet her for something is because she could show up with strung-out, meth head "boyfriend."

[KFC911]

Originally Posted by Hebrewhomeboy

I've thought about it, and don't worry, I won't bang her. I'm meeting her in public areas only.

Having just read through this thread, imo, you're a damn fool for talking with her on the phone, much less meeting her. She NEVER was the person YOU "thought" she was, and you're still hanging on to what you "thought" was a good person. My ex g/f broke my heart (after 8+ years) a few months ago, but you simply MUST move on. Love can't fix "broken people", and you've received some excellent advice on this thread. Good luck brother, you've got a lot of us pulling for you...

[Moses]

Originally Posted by nostatic

Anyone want to give odds that they end up in bed?

Dude...do not meet her in person. Seriously. Or at least have one of your friends there to keep you from doing something stupid.

I SWEAR I'm not making this up. Nearly the exact same scenario with a good friend of mine 5 years ago. She was a complete train wreck. Alcohol, drugs, the works. They met to say their goodbyes. They had sex. They said goodbye.

Currently she is in jail and my pal has sole custody of their 5 year old son.

[nostatic]

every guy thinks, "I can handle it, I'm different." And most make the same stupid choices. Never misunderestimate the power of the 'tang.

que sera sera...

[rnln]

hahah. He is not worry about you bangging her but worry you are going to hug, kiss and take her right back when she cry and remind you all the good memmories.

Originally Posted by Hebrewhomeboy

I've thought about it, and don't worry, I won't bang her. I'm meeting her in public areas only.

[mikester]

My only advice is to avoid the "just one more time" trap.

[Rikao4]

like Todd , I know he's not done..it's
I can change her,
it will be different this time,

dude ..your in for a lesson..
we told you. and alot of us have been there..
BUT..
don't touch that it;s HOT..
IEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE EEEEEh

told you..it's HOT/toxic..
come back when you've lost alot,she's screwed your brother,and you now have a really cool growth on your Dick..

Rika

[Shadetree930]

Yep,

He is not listening. This one is gonna have legs. EPIC thread!

[targa911S]

Just wait until she says she is pregnant with your kid...........right. Todd is right DO NOT GO ALONE! You are her cash cow and she knows it and knows just how to work you.

[Rikao4]

"she promised she's going to stop...
..Monday
she promised to only to sleep with guys that pay,
,no more friends of mine, or people I know,
I know she loves me, well as long as I have some $,
anybody seen my TV, car, BRAIN !
you have a disease..enjoy..the Dr's told you...
but you know better, have fun dying SLOWLY

"Rika

[Rick Lee]

Let's get a betting pool going. This should be easy money as long as we can find a few to bet on HBHB doing the right thing. I'll bet anything he won't. Listen to Moses. HBHB will be in the same boat as his friend.

[BlueSkyJaunte]

If she's really REALLY sorry she'll let you stick it in her pooper.

[Rikao4]

he's babbling i LOVE YOU,I can help you,
she's, i PROMISE not again till Tuesday..it didn't mean a thing,well it was 20 BUCKS..
and the classic..YOU DIDN'T THROW IT AWAY..did you ???
and this is the fun part..our boy will go and fetch..

Rika