Which would freak you out more from a new date

masraum · 10-09-2009, 03:31 PM

Let's say that you're out on a 3rd of 4th date with a girl, she has seemed perfectly normal (as normal as any girl can be), and you guys are really clicking. She's got a job, and seems to have her stuff together. You've not yet had sex, but you've done plenty of other stuff. Then she drops one of these on you, which would freak you out more, and what would you think of either/both?

I used to be a stripper (lets say for a couple of years)
or
I used to have a porn site where I sold nude photos of myself (no hardcore, only herself or herself and other chicks)

Would you care, would it bother you, would you approach things differently?

This is purely hypothetical, I'm not in this situation so there are no pics to post (well, there are lots of pics all over the Internet, but none specific to this post

)

pwd72s · 10-09-2009, 03:49 PM

What's a date? Hell, I was born married!

924slover · 10-09-2009, 03:57 PM

It would bother me but not enough to end things if they're going good, if it were hardcore porn then that would be a deal breaker.

lm6y · 10-09-2009, 03:58 PM

Neither would freak me out, but I'm not the type to be married either. The herself and other chicks scenario would DEFINITELY be explored.

9dreizig · 10-09-2009, 04:03 PM

I'd think I hit the jackpot!!! No wouldn't bother me a bit,

Seahawk · 10-09-2009, 04:15 PM

I have stripper experience...it was great because we were both full of ***** and we knew it.

I recommend that policy.

Gogar · 10-09-2009, 04:17 PM

If your goal is fun, then wrap that rascal and blow it off.

If your goal is to have a steady girlfriend or get married or something, well, then wrap that rascal and blow it off for now.

If there's some ultra-crazy stuff in there, it will come out soon enough.

The other issue is how well you can handle the idea that LOTS of people have seen her naked, and not Playboy naked either.

vash · vash's Garage

wouldnt bother me one bit. people have past lives...live and learn.

it is how she is NOW that counts. she didnt bone you on the first date..so she is working with a different handbook of life. run with it. she sounds great.

legion · 10-09-2009, 04:24 PM

It depends on what your goals are.

I always dated looking for serious relationships, so this would give me pause.

And I said "pause", not "hit the road".

I'd want to learn more if the relationship were to progress to a serious stage, but wouldn't care if I were in it for fun. Assuming the former, I'd say is not the time to delve into this just yet. I say this is a conversation for the threshold of "serious".

berettafan · 10-09-2009, 04:32 PM

if i was a hot chick i'd be stripping my ass off every damn night of the week.

and i tend to think i'm a pretty decent person worth spending time with.

Bill Douglas · 10-09-2009, 05:35 PM

I used to date the biggest slut in town so it probably wouldn't worry me.

t951 · t951's Garage

Wouldn't phase me at all. You are dating who she is now, not who she was. She wouldn't be who she is without her experiences.

Plus, if things are ever starting to head south, you could talk her into some cool stuff!!

RoninLB · 10-09-2009, 06:21 PM

if you ain't making it in bed your ain't making it anywhere

period

carlosR · 10-09-2009, 06:54 PM

I'd say Jackpot!

Nostril Cheese · 10-09-2009, 07:20 PM

I once dated a former stripper. Her past didnt bother me too much. Of course, I might have a problem with it if she was stripping WHILE we were dating. I just looked at the upside of it all. I would get to sleep with her after she gave me a lap dance.

She's an accountant now. Go figure..

masraum · 10-09-2009, 08:35 PM

I guess I'm not too surprised by the answers.

I bartended at strip joints for about 5 years. A lot (not all) of strippers eventually end up having sex for money in the clubs or going to a hotel with a customer. I would always wonder about that. I'm not sure what I'd think about that. Then there's the girl doing the porn. It would be a bit weird if you introduced her to some friends, and someone recognized her. That might be awkward.

Noah930 · Noah930's Garage

I dated a girl once, who later on in the relationship told me she used to be a topless waitress in college. She asked me if that bothered me, and would I have still gone out with her had I known that earlier. She then asked if she had told me that earlier in the relationship, would I be able to still look her in the eyes. I responded had she told me that earlier, it wouldn't be her eyes that I was looking at all the time.

It didn't bother me. How could I complain about going out with a good looking girl with great boobs?

RWebb · RWebb's Garage

you may wind up hosing both of 'em down with a power washer

and you still might pick up something bad

m21sniper · 10-10-2009, 06:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by masraum

Let's say that you're out on a 3rd of 4th date with a girl, she has seemed perfectly normal (as normal as any girl can be), and you guys are really clicking. She's got a job, and seems to have her stuff together. You've not yet had sex, but you've done plenty of other stuff. Then she drops one of these on you, which would freak you out more, and what would you think of either/both?

I used to be a stripper (lets say for a couple of years)
or
I used to have a porn site where I sold nude photos of myself (no hardcore, only herself or herself and other chicks)

Would you care, would it bother you, would you approach things differently?

This is purely hypothetical, I'm not in this situation so there are no pics to post (well, there are lots of pics all over the Internet, but none specific to this post

)

Neither one would bother me in the slightest.

KaptKaos · 10-10-2009, 06:58 AM

The fact that you're asking means you're bothered by it. What does it matter what we think? You need to be able to deal with it, not us.

As for stripping, most often they are not the college girl making tuition money. They're girls with lots of other issues, abusive relationships, drug & alcohol problems, etc... So be careful with that.