Another parent shirking responsibility for their kids actions...

[Christien]

There's something to be said about teaching your kids that authority can be abused and isn't always to be trusted.

[Rick Lee]

When I was a kid, our neighbors were like this kid's parents. They thought their kids could do no wrong. Their criminal-in-waiting son was hitting golf balls toward our house one day as my dad came home from work. My dad told him to change directions so the balls weren't coming at our house. An hour later my dad went outside to the sound of breaking glass, found a golfball in the front seat of our awesome '77 Dodge Aspen wagon and a broken windshield. The golf ball was monogrammed with the kid's dad's initials. When my dad knocked their door, the mom said her son couldn't have possibly done it.

[drcoastline]

HardDrive- Do we really need a law against writing in concrete?

To me that is a rite of passage. I would be a lifer for all the times I wrote in concrete. When the kids were caught the coppers should have had them smooth it out. Take the kids to the station and call the parents. I agree with the dad I think the kid got the message. I don't think writing in concrete leads to drug dealing and a life of crime.

When I was younger 8-9-10 years old we used to do some stupid things. Not because we were deviant or delinquents but because we didn't know any better and were having fun. This was the early middle '70's. Times were different then. In October after people decorated for Halloween we would take scarecrows from the lawns and throw them in the street as cars passed or throw snow balls at passing cars after a storm not realizing we could cause an accident. We just though it was fun to try and hit a moving target and funny when a car would slam on the brakes and skid. It wasn't until one snowball broke a car window that we realized what we were doing was dangerous. Fortunately nobody got hurt and we didn't get caught.

There are a lot of kids at 11 years old these days selling drugs and doing really bad things. writing in concrete ain't one of them.

[Tobra]

Originally Posted by strupgolf

Give me a break. The cops, if they were in their commen sense mode, would have made the kids cover it up. Cover it up, say you're sorry, move on to the next big crime in the streets. Somethimes I think the cops are the problem, not the kids.

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[JavaBrewer]

Originally Posted by strupgolf

give me a break. The cops, if they were in their commen sense mode, would have made the kids cover it up. Cover it up, say you're sorry, move on to the next big crime in the streets. Somethimes i think the cops are the problem, not the kids.

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[A930Rocket]

I doubt the concrete was wet enough for them to just smooth it out. If it was, the finishers would still be there. After the concrete has started to set up, you can still scratch your name it, but "fixing" it might not work. It might be at the point of no return. Filling it in with a filler just accentuates whatever was written or carved in there.

Parents pay for the repair bottom line.

[nynor]

yep, because god forbid that there be some initials in some concrete at the school. the horror.

[Joe Bob]

I woulda pressed in my buttcheeks. Kids have no imagination these days AND I would not have been caught.....



Hey, it could happen......

[Evans, Marv]

Had to go to jury duty yesterday (got eliminated by the defense lawyer) and was surprised at some of the people there. I was wondering about one lady in the jury pool and how much she enabled her son. The trial for our pool of prospective jurors was about a 19YO kid accused of arson - travel trailer and a house. This lady in the prospective jury pool originally told the judge she didn't feel comfortable there because her son was on trial for something in the same court house. Later on she also admitted her son had been convicted of arson a couple of years prior. I suspect messing up somebody's cement was low on his priority list.

[enzo1]

[Porsche-O-Phile]

Yet when punks spray paint bridges and buildings we elevate it to an art form and call it "graffiti art".

Oh but wait - they're minorities so it's okay. My bad.

[Mike C]

Originally Posted by A930Rocket

I doubt the concrete was wet enough for them to just smooth it out. If it was, the finishers would still be there. After the concrete has started to set up, you can still scratch your name it, but "fixing" it might not work. It might be at the point of no return. Filling it in with a filler just accentuates whatever was written or carved in there.

Parents pay for the repair bottom line.

This makes perfect sense! While it isn't the crime of the century, I would bet if it was your new driveway that the kids wrote on we would be hearing different comments.

[billwagnon]

In my old 'hood they poured nice new sidewalks to replace the broken ones.

Local kids wrote the big F word, drew male sexual organs, the whole gamut.

The city came back and tried to grind it out and they mostly look like crap now, and will for the next 20 years.

there oughta be a law

[cashflyer]

To me, a few initials or a name is not a big deal. Scrawling the F word, or the N word, or some other real damage that would be an eyesore for years would be a big deal.

Since when do school districts have the authority to levy fines?
I think the $250 fines must have been imposed by the police, not the school.

Appropriate action for the father is to file a suit in civil court against the school for having an "attractive nuisance" that was improperly secured.

[Taz's Master]

How many people who think the petty vandalism is no big deal absolutely flip when someone lets a dog poop in their yard? Would you get uptight if a neighbor constantly parked in front of your house in the development so their company ins't inconvenienced? How do people come to believe that rude or boorish behaviour should be accepted and not carry consequences? A smart parent would petition the district for a landscaping/janitorial job for their kid to work to pay the measely $250.

[stomachmonkey]

Originally Posted by cashflyer

Appropriate action for the father is to file a suit in civil court against the school for having an "attractive nuisance" that was improperly secured.

Instead of taking the opportunity to drive home the idea of right and wrong and the consequences of our actions?

[A930Rocket]

Where's that puking smilie...

How about kids and parents taking responsibility for their actions? It might be one thing for a 3 year to do it, but an 11 year old? They knew better...

Originally Posted by cashflyer

...Appropriate action for the father is to file a suit in civil court against the school for having an "attractive nuisance" that was improperly secured.

[cashflyer]

Taking the opportunity to drive home the idea of right and wrong, and the consequences of negligence.
The school and contractor knew better.

[RWebb]

we need to bring back capital punishment

[RedBaron]

Hey, at lease the cops didnt taze the kids.