Not getting involved!!!

[Zeke]

You don't belong in his house much less tampering. I'm not too sure any lawyer was actually behind this.

And, as Joe Bob says, there are 2 sides. The husband may come home to a house with no wife and kids and order up some hookers and blow.

[Joeaksa]

Originally Posted by red-beard

From my understanding, she is moving out of state with the kids.

This is NOT a good thing legally. The court will force her back into the state, if not the county or city so that the Dad can visit.

James, any update on this?

[stomachmonkey]

Obviously she set up residence out of state ahead of time.

TX is a no alimony state.

I don't know if she can serve him as a resident of the new state and collect.

[stomachmonkey]

Originally Posted by Danimal16

If this guy is a problem the courts and cops would already be involved.

Not always the case and even if it were what difference would it make if the guy is a hothead?

Restraining orders are useless if the other person is nuts.

[red-beard]

Originally Posted by stomachmonkey

Obviously she set up residence out of state ahead of time.

TX is a no alimony state.

I don't know if she can serve him as a resident of the new state and collect.

That would depend on the state. Most states, you have to become a resident before filing. States vary on residency requirements. Some it is as soon as you move, some there is a wait. Virgina has a 6 month waiting period.

[red-beard]

Originally Posted by Joeaksa

James, any update on this?

Update: She moved out today. I did not get involved. My buddy also stayed away.

[Danimal16]

Originally Posted by stomachmonkey

Not always the case and even if it were what difference would it make if the guy is a hothead?

Restraining orders are useless if the other person is nuts.

The problem I have is if this guy were so bad why didn't this woman GET the order. There is more to this than what was revealed by the woman.

UPDATE: All ended well so, NEVER Mind

[Joe Bob]

Wimmen and sheep, lie......just sayin'.

[mossguy]

Originally Posted by URY914

Don't touch a man's wife, his truck or his guns.

You did right.

Or his dog!......Don't forget the DOG!

[drcoastline]

Originally Posted by AFC-911

Why are you sympathizing with the guy? He could be a real douchebag for all we know.

I'm not siding with the guy. He could be a douche bag. Then again maybe he isnt. But it just doesnt smell right from what I am reading. More often than not the guy is made out to be a douche bag to get the upper hand.

Why are you siding with the wife? She could be a lying Ho.

[stomachmonkey]

Originally Posted by Danimal16

The problem I have is if this guy were so bad why didn't this woman GET the order. There is more to this than what was revealed by the woman.

UPDATE: All ended well so, NEVER Mind

My father was that bad, not sure why my mother never got an order.

She handled it the way she thought best at the time.

In the long run it was the right choice.

Mom went from a weak controlled individual to a powerful, strong, confident don't f with me or I will eat you alive entity. She is an awe inspiring woman.

My father, who truly did love my mother more than anything realized that he had issues and while he was not able to fix all of his shortcomings he was able to eventually get to the point that he could have a long, happy, fulfilling relationship with his last wife.

[AFC-911]

Originally Posted by drcoastline

I'm not siding with the guy. He could be a douche bag. Then again maybe he isnt. But it just doesnt smell right from what I am reading. More often than not the guy is made out to be a douche bag to get the upper hand.

Why are you siding with the wife? She could be a lying Ho.

I'm not siding with the wife. If someone feels they have to take drastic measures like she's doing and the guy has guns, maybe there's a reason for that.

Even if he's the most level headed person, he could snap and start shooting everybody. I know I wouldn't want to take that risk.

Let him deal with his **** on his own.

[sc_rufctr]

Originally Posted by Joe Bob

Wimmen and sheep, lie......just sayin'.

Sheep lie? Since when?