After 21 years... she's leaving

[LeeH]

Originally Posted by DonDavis

Ha! Such great insightful replies.

I sometimes think the best threads come from awful titles.
This has turned into much more of how we've grown, not about the initial pain and turbulence.

Crazy to think it's been 12 yrs since my D.
( still single, apparently I'm still healing )

So happy for my Bro Lee. Such a great dude. We need to get lunch, right?

Let's make the lunch thing happen Don!
You got plans for Thanksgiving? I'm up to 17 folks coming over... plenty of room for more!

[wayner]

While this thread is fresh in my mind I want to dispute a common way of thinking that our generation has been brainwashed into thinking:

The phrase "Happy wife happy life"

The people telling me that totally misunderstood the point, and I bought into it.

Here is my take:
Happy wife happy life?
If your wife is not happy your life will be miserable, but... keeping her happy is not your job, its hers.
Find one who is happy
Find one who has problem solving skills

There might not be many, but it's better to be alone than to be with someone who you should have left alone.

I'm living again
I didn't realize that I wasn't
But this time Im living life in a whole new way.

Like Lee, Im living again
Apparently we've each found our passion, mine just happens to be a harmonica

(one more pic from another stage in Nashville...this time performing Tennessee whiskey, with Michael Simeon)


Lee and his squeeze

[red-beard]

Some people are never happy. And nothing you can do will make them happy.

[flatbutt]

Originally Posted by DonDavis

Crazy to think it's been 12 yrs since my D.
( still single, apparently I'm still healing )

30 for me. I was so focused on my kids that I put off romance for too long. Now it's just me, the kids, the grandkids, my toys, my bikes, my spoons, my new studies.....