I've got a stalker what do I do ?

[DonDavis]

Btw, the text I recommended on page 2 was polite, but clear and direct.

That’s NOT for her, because when it “hits the fan”, and folks mostly believe it certainly will, it’s PROOF you took the high road early.

CYA

[Sooner or later]

Poor Fred

[billybek]

Originally Posted by fastfredracing

If you try to kiss me, I am definitely calling " the guy "

This is why I come back to OT!
Some pretty good scotch on the screen....

[911boost]

is she a redhead?

[legion]

I've had a few songs stuck in my head because of this thread...

[PD41]

Never break the Mans Code of honor.

No married women.
Never date a buddies ex girlfriend or wife unless you talk to him first and ask.

[Rick Lee]

When is PPOT going to add a like option to each post?

WD's suggestion was the best I've ever read here. But then linear logic doesn't always do the trick with women. SM's is over the top. I had to do that once, but at least the victim was an attractive woman I barely knew. I was no match for the four French soldiers surrounding her (this was in Germany long ago), but I was enough to let them know she wasn't alone.

I say tell the wife. And then I say try to find a way to have less drama in your life. Man, I spent four years in Pittsburgh and my stories don't rival yours.

[93nav]

From someone who is not married.

- Tell the wife.
- Document the texts and any other interactions. Keep multiple copies in multiple locations in multiple formats.
- Go down and talk to the police. See what they say, get the name and card of whoever you talk to.
- Tell the wife

Best of luck

[unclebilly]

Tell your wife.

Tell your suitor that you are flattered but you have gonorrhoea, siphilis, chlamydia, and herpes and think she ought to know this up front.

[fastfredracing]

Originally Posted by Rick Lee

When is PPOT going to add a like option to each post?

WD's suggestion was the best I've ever read here. But then linear logic doesn't always do the trick with women. SM's is over the top. I had to do that once, but at least the victim was an attractive woman I barely knew. I was no match for the four French soldiers surrounding her (this was in Germany long ago), but I was enough to let them know she wasn't alone.

I say tell the wife. And then I say try to find a way to have less drama in your life. Man, I spent four years in Pittsburgh and my stories don't rival yours.

What part of Pittsburgh Rick? Hey, im not making this stuff up. My life has been nice and quiet for the last few years . I like it this way . Other than the rentals, there is very little drama in my life .
My wife says I attract nutty people for some reason. I think, maybe it is because I am nice to them? I try to give everybody a chance . I always got along well with this couple and their kid. I just worked on her sisters truck yesterday.

[wayner]

Originally Posted by fastfredracing

... I just worked on her sisters truck yesterday.

Is this code or something?

[lsf911]

Originally Posted by wayner

Is this code or something?

^^^ That's funny

[MRM]

Originally Posted by fastfredracing

What part of Pittsburgh Rick? Hey, im not making this stuff up. My life has been nice and quiet for the last few years . I like it this way . Other than the rentals, there is very little drama in my life .
My wife says I attract nutty people for some reason. I think, maybe it is because I am nice to them? I try to give everybody a chance . I always got along well with this couple and their kid. I just worked on her sisters truck yesterday.

You invite familiarity. You need to develop an approach to professional relationships where you maintain a distance as you provide customer service and in personal relationships so that friends don't have the opportunity to become overly familiar. You need to set more boundaries more clearly. Don't let people inside your personal space until you know them and know you can trust them.

[stomachmonkey]

So, how'd the wife react?

[Rtrorkt]

This thread needs pictures

[T77911S]

NAIL HER!!!

just kidding
you sound like a great guy and you lots of good guy points unless the chick is just butt ugly and it is easy to turn her down.

if you are not friends with the couple or you dont really do anything with them then just tell your wife. (this is from experience)
tell her you want her to know what is going on because you dont want to hide anything from her and perhaps ask for her suggestions or let her know what you are doing about it.
but just remember if your wife sees her in the future there WILL BE tension there and perhaps some "arched backs". after all, and i quote, "this B**** wants to steel my man"
best suggestion;
let the lady know that you will take her text messages to her husband if she does not stop.
you can try the above first, if that does not work then tell your wife.

i am in a similar situation that you are in.
me and the girl are very good friends and have been for about a year and half now.
trying to keep it short:
so the first of the year she tells me she loves me.
i tell my wife and everything was cool.....at first. remember now, i have a cool wife. we even had a threesome years ago with a friend and would have another with another friend (another story). yea i have tried, but it aint happnin. we do joke about it though. she teased me with a threesome with her for my birthday next week.
i told her i wanted her to know everything because i had nothing to hide so i told her what had been going on and that she loved me.
the jealousy got really bad for while but it is better now. also they know each other and the 3 of us have been out partying together. they did see each other the other day and they will see each other tomorrow. i hope i can survive the stress of those 2 together.
now my wife tracks my text messages on my phone and wont let me be alone with her....at her house mainly. i did take her shooting last weekend even though my wife was not thrilled.

[speeder]

Originally Posted by T77911S

NAIL HER!!!

just kidding
you sound like a great guy and you lots of good guy points unless the chick is just butt ugly and it is easy to turn her down.

if you are not friends with the couple or you dont really do anything with them then just tell your wife. (this is from experience)
tell her you want her to know what is going on because you dont want to hide anything from her and perhaps ask for her suggestions or let her know what you are doing about it.
but just remember if your wife sees her in the future there WILL BE tension there and perhaps some "arched backs". after all, and i quote, "this B**** wants to steel my man"
best suggestion;
let the lady know that you will take her text messages to her husband if she does not stop.
you can try the above first, if that does not work then tell your wife.

i am in a similar situation that you are in.
me and the girl are very good friends and have been for about a year and half now.
trying to keep it short:
so the first of the year she tells me she loves me.
i tell my wife and everything was cool.....at first. remember now, i have a cool wife. we even had a threesome years ago with a friend and would have another with another friend (another story). yea i have tried, but it aint happnin. we do joke about it though. she teased me with a threesome with her for my birthday next week.
i told her i wanted her to know everything because i had nothing to hide so i told her what had been going on and that she loved me.
the jealousy got really bad for while but it is better now. also they know each other and the 3 of us have been out partying together. they did see each other the other day and they will see each other tomorrow. i hope i can survive the stress of those 2 together.
now my wife tracks my text messages on my phone and wont let me be alone with her....at her house mainly. i did take her shooting last weekend even though my wife was not thrilled.

This isn’t the one w the thigh high whore boots that you took shooting a while back, is it? Different one? You have a strange life but hey, whatever makes you happy!

[911 Rod]

Originally Posted by speeder

This isn’t the one w the thigh high whore boots that you took shooting a while back, is it? Different one? You have a strange life but hey, whatever makes you happy!

We collectively hope the answer is yes!

[911 Rod]

So you have 119 posts now.
How many texts did she send you?
Maybe you should be telling her about us?

[charlesbahn]

I just have one word of advise..................remember the boiled bunny