My fiance is cheating on me and addicted to meth

[Superman]

Glad to hear you're making good decisions now. Yeah, it hurts. That goes away. Protect yourself. At the same time, get past the details as quickly as possible, even if you leave money or possessions on the table. The hurt goes away, but not until it's been a while since your last dealing with her. Get away......that is the most important thing.

[Superman]

Cancel your insurance on that car.

[Heel n Toe]

1. Tell the repo man to take a buddy with him when he goes to get the car at 4 A.M.

2. Tell him to make as much noise as he can with the chains and the BEEP BEEP BEEP when his truck is in reverse.

3. When she comes out screaming at them to stop, hit her with a taser... the reason being that they were concerned she might attack them.

4. While she is lying on the ground wiggling like a worm in hot coals, they get the ring back for you. She won't remember a thing.

5. Take the repo man and his buddy out for steaks.

[nostatic]

Report the car stolen and tell the insurance company the same thing.

Put her stuff in a small storage place. Get it all out of your place. When she shows up (and she will show up), hand her the key to the storage place and tell her never to contact you again. Get a TRO if necessary.

Then get yourself into therapy to figure out how you missed all the signs that this was happening. Otherwise you'll likely make the same mistake again.

[Jim Richards]

Originally Posted by nostatic

Then get yourself into therapy to figure out how you missed all the signs that this was happening. Otherwise you'll likely make the same mistake again.

Of course, therapy can be a simple beer and pizza gathering of you and your buddies. Make sure they sign a pact to kick your ass if you get into this kind of relationship again.

[Seahawk]

Originally Posted by Heel n Toe

1. Tell the repo man to take a buddy with him when he goes to get the car at 4 A.M.

2. Tell him to make as much noise as he can with the chains and the BEEP BEEP BEEP when his truck is in reverse.

3. When she comes out screaming at them to stop, hit her with a taser... the reason being that they were concerned she might attack them.

4. While she is lying on the ground wiggling like a worm in hot coals, they get the ring back for you. She won't remember a thing.

5. Take the repo man and his buddy out for steaks.

Where in SC do you live...I want to be sure I never pi$$ you off.

That is evil genius

[911boost]

Call Dog the Bounty Hunter, he will get your car back.

[charleskieffner]

"wiggling around like a worm on hot coals!" TOO DAMN FUNNY! COFFEE THRU NOSE ON THAT ONE!

damn that was FUNNY!

[Gogar]

Originally Posted by Heel n Toe

1. Tell the repo man to take a buddy with him when he goes to get the car at 4 A.M.

2. Tell him to make as much noise as he can with the chains and the BEEP BEEP BEEP when his truck is in reverse.

3. When she comes out screaming at them to stop, hit her with a taser... the reason being that they were concerned she might attack them.

4. While she is lying on the ground wiggling like a worm in hot coals, they get the ring back for you. She won't remember a thing.

5. Take the repo man and his buddy out for steaks.

Dude, that is A DAMN FINE IDEA RIGHT THURE.

[charleskieffner]

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[Rick Lee]

Where is m21sniper when we need him?

[charleskieffner]

Originally Posted by rick lee

where is m21sniper when we need him?

lmfao!!!!

[Shawn 357]

Don't cancel your insurance until you are no longer considered the owner of the vehicle. If she gets in an accident or something and a lawyer is looking for pockets they will skip over the meth chick and look for the owner of the vehicle.

[Math]

Originally Posted by Jim Richards

Of course, therapy can be a simple beer and pizza gathering of you and your buddies. Make sure they sign a pact to kick your ass if you get into this kind of relationship again.

best therapy. buddies and beer.

[71T Targa]

I feel for ya, and I hope things work out. You've gotten some pretty good advice here about things of a personal, and legal nature.

On another note; I am a bit surprised that we've gone three pages and no one has said that pictures will be required before a decision can be made.

[Jim Richards]

In this particular case, pics are irrelevant.

[Rick Lee]

I hope she doesn't belong in that several stages of meth collage we see on billboards.

[JeremyD]

It doesn't feel like it right now - but you just won the relationship lottery. Congratulations - Get yourself tested, wash the bad taste out of your mouth and move on.

[RWebb]

cert. mail a letter to all known addresses - even yours with her name on it
say return car immediately
send copies 1st class - no sig. req'd

sorry to hear this

get a restr. order also

[Rikao4]

and in your next adventure , be a man
not a doormat , NOT always doing and saying ..
yes dear, whatever you want honey, can I, may I..

Rika