My fiance is cheating on me and addicted to meth

[Hebrewhomeboy]

Originally Posted by prials

for the record (and Post count) .... I'd hit it.

LOL!!!!!!


She was FANTASTIC in bed! I guess she certainly had her practice!!


An update, I called the police today and filed a missing persons report and told them about the meth I found in her clothes. Unfortunately I was a genious and when I found the meth I flushed it down the toilet and threw the bag away, so when the cops came here I basically gave them an empty bag with some residue in it and a few grains of meth. It might not be enough to prove as meth, however at least they have it and also a missing persons report. So I've got the ball rolling, so to speak. Friday morning I'm going in and getting tested for every disease the army knows how to test for. (maybe if they take enough blood I won't have to go into work. ha!)

And I'm doing fine. It still hurts a good bit, but I'm lucky that nothing really affects me much. I get over things really quickly. I'll always love her (the part of her without the drugs) and the best thing I can probably do for her is let her go to jail. It hurts to say it, you know, but it's true. Maybe if she's caught with drugs and goes to jail they can send her through rehab, maybe that will help her.

I also just got off the phone with her grandma. I knew she had some troubles with drugs in the past, but according to her (of course) they were minor, and she went to rehab and Narcotics Anonymous and was fine. According to her grandma they were a lot worse. And she did go to rehab, but it was a volunteer one and she walked out after like 3 weeks. Her grandma and I both agreed though, she's a wonderfully sweet person, beautiful and talented, but when the drugs are in her life she becomes a totally different person. But hey, I guess that's what drugs do. It's a sad situation, the destruction of someone that could have been so great and done so many wonderful things. But nope.

[Hebrewhomeboy]

whenever she shows back up I'm going to try my best to get her into a drug rehab. She's young, maybe there's a chance she can fix her life. I'm not saying I'm going to take her back, not that, I just want her to fix her life.

[MT930]

Run Forest Run !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Jim Richards]

Originally Posted by Hebrewhomeboy

whenever she shows back up I'm going to try my best to get her into a drug rehab. She's young, maybe there's a chance she can fix her life. I'm not saying I'm going to take her back, not that, I just want her to fix her life.

Look at what you've typed! You've already (mentally) taken her back. Clearly you're as addicted to her issues as she is.

[75'930cab]

I would not try to help her at all with her drug problem, cut all ties ASAP!!! All she will do is drag you back in and it wll happen all over again! Rinse and repeat! RUN FAR FAR AWAY FROM HER!!!!

[Bill Douglas]

Don't try to fix her life. Have NOTHING to do with her. She is dangerous in lots of ways including your own mental health.

[rammstein]

Originally Posted by Hebrewhomeboy

whenever she shows back up I'm going to try my best to get her into a drug rehab. She's young, maybe there's a chance she can fix her life. I'm not saying I'm going to take her back, not that, I just want her to fix her life.

NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO

Listen to people here- I mean, it is unanimous. Even Dipso, who I have never agreed with on ANYTHING, sees the truth here. Assuming this isn't an elaborate prank, I really want you to listen to everyone here and cease all contact FOREVER. FOREVER. FOREVER.

[Bill Douglas]

Yeah, EVEN Dipso.

[Hawktel]

I'm sorry man.

I think the ring was the price of your education. Cheap at 1/2 the price?

[Rick Lee]

This is beginning to sound like that link I posted a few days ago of the future Darwin Award winner who's planning on climbing Denali in the winter on his own with no permit, no guide, no plane drop and almost no experience. Everyone is telling him he'll die and he's having none of it.

[Whtnkls911]

Originally Posted by Hebrewhomeboy

whenever she shows back up I'm going to try my best to get her into a drug rehab. She's young, maybe there's a chance she can fix her life. I'm not saying I'm going to take her back, not that, I just want her to fix her life.

You will never "fix" her life. As someone who has been through a similiar relationship, scatch that, manipulated by a Bi@ch. Take your grief and lavish a basket case. When my stituation ended, I had many similar thoughts but I ended buying a basket case 914-6 and restoring it. A much better use of time and efforts. I ended loving that car far more than the Bi@ch I kicked to the curb.

[Granite]

<------- Pulling up a seat as this should be good.

You can't fix her problems with Meth. Only she can! Don't even try! Run away or you will pay the price. I have seen it happen.

Be strong.

Steve

[dipso]

Originally Posted by Rick Lee

This is beginning to sound like that link I posted a few days ago of the future Darwin Award winner who's planning on climbing Denali in the winter on his own with no permit, no guide, no plane drop and almost no experience. Everyone is telling him he'll die and he's having none of it.

Mind your own business.

[Rick Lee]

Originally Posted by dipso

Mind your own business.

Oh, sorry. I was really being nosy by posting on PPOT. But it's ok if you do it. You make so much more sense anyway.

[Hebrewhomeboy]

woah woah woah. Okay, first off I am NOT taking her back. I am kicking her out of my life. I will never take her back, no matter what. I just want her to go to rehab. Even after rehab I will not take her back. Let me state that again, I am NOT TAKING HER BACK, NO MATTER WHAT! I could never take anyone back that has hurt me this badly. I just want her to go to rehab and fix her life.

She actually just called me earlier for the first time in 5 days. We had the typical conversation, wah wah wahhh I feel so bad, I'm sorry. I told her that I will never take her back, but if she will agree to go to rehab, I will take her there and help her get into rehab. Don't worry, I'm not paying!

Yeah, don't worry I'm not taking her back. ugh, hell no.

[1967 R50/2]

I still don't think you are hearing it. Listen to everyone here:

Let the courts put her in re-hab. It's not your responsibility and you are only giving her the opportunity to work on you again. She used you and will continue to use you if you even give her the slightest opportunity.

DO NOT try to be a white knight charging to the rescue...it never, ever, ever, ever works. A lot of men are like this: they need to be needed. Don't let this be you again. So gut up and be tough. You need to get away from this way of thinking and see her as she is: A terribly flawed person and an accomplished liar who used you.

Get your stuff back and then never talk to her again. Bottom line.

[Hebrewhomeboy]

I'm just not hugely familiar with drugs/legal stuff I guess. Do courts put people in rehab if they get arrested for drug charges?

[nostatic]

Originally Posted by Hebrewhomeboy

but if she will agree to go to rehab, I will take her there and help her get into rehab. Don't worry, I'm not paying!

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ur insane.

If she calls again, do not answer. Do not listen to the vm. Change your number if you can.

Or, go ahead and "be there" for her. Be a chump. Again.

[nostatic]

Originally Posted by targa911S

Todd that is a REAL BAD IDEA. You're smarter than that.

Yeah, I know but I get frustrated.

What I have contemplated more seriously is a mic and camera setup to get pictures of them doing biz. It seems that the only way they'll stop is by going to jail or getting offed. The neighbors have been calling the cops on them for years. They come, they cuff, the let them go.

[Hebrewhomeboy]

Okay, can we keep things on topic in here nostatic?